Girls how to date aspie guys?

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I will admit that it depends on the individual, as not everyone has the guts to take the world by the horns.

This is where guys (and also gals, as also I'm fine with men who live this way) like me come in.

Goodbye Till Next Time

I couldn't imagine anything worse myself, but.. er, each to their own?

What you're proposing is a form of emotional servitude though, so to go about this morally you'd have to make 100% sure the girl knew exactly what she was getting into, and was certain it was what she wanted - and you would also have to allow her to back out at any time if she stopped feeling comfortable with it or started feeling trapped.

^ This.
The best way to make me suicidal is to coop me up in a house with nothing to look forward to except more days at home.
I need to get out, I need to feel like I'm achieving something, and I need a sense of direction.

Same here

Your whole pattern of thought terrifies me, as I've stated in all your other dangerous sounding threads. From all the threads you've made, you sound like a real controller and manipulator.

That is my way of thinking on the matter.

After all I'd only do this to make sure she was happy, and there would be no point in having her 'kept at home' where she'd be unhappy.

Lastly, for those of you out there who think that I'm some sort of control freak, let me tell you (yet again) that I'm not like that at all (ask my friends and they'll tell you the same)

However sometimes I like to vent my thoughts and feelings, and sometimes I'll say I'll do stuff that I later think better off and not carry out, save the stuff I did as a kid.

You could say that my bark is worse than my bite for want of a better term.

Goodbye till next time.

Just so you know, I'm not saying that you're a bad person or that it's wrong to want a protective type relationship, I'm just advising caution. I'm sure there would be girls out there (I said before that it's definitely not for me, but I'm sure it's what someone wants) who would want that sort of relationship with you, but you would have to be careful not to cross the line into entrapment.

Thanks I'll bear it in mind,

Maybe you're terrified of losing control of yourself.