What kind of people are you attracted to?

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I feel as if I bully them.

When I hit 30, it seemed like women my age were either married and making babies, or if not, there was a good reason why not. However, I discovered the 40-something divorcee. Talk about hot! I was 33 when I met my wife, 35 when we got married. She was 12 years older than me. We were married for 12 years. Now I'm 48, and while I have no romantic interest in 20-somethings, I remain optimistic about 30- and 40-somethings.

eh no one in real life.
is that bad?

saix: no comment.
xemnas: "romantic relationships" jet do you even know what that means?
hmm not really.

i like fictional characters does that count?

larxene: well i guess that means this place will never die.
demyx: yep *gets out sitar and dances*
narcore: we are immortal!

well they're happy.

That's just bullsh*t. I don't target overweight women for sex. When I want sex, I hire an escort. I go for overweight women because they're the only ones willing to be in a relationship with me.

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I don't want a girlfriend with teen kids, absolutely not... No it's a single, neutered life for me.

Sorry if I offended you, but I don't want to be like this and I can never get close to women either, so I'm finally going to get chemically castrated now.

Could bit of a risky subject but given you said 'feel' instead of 'do' I'll ask:

Why do you feel you bully them? You obviously have a moral centre in regard to treatment of women.. perhaps we could figure out what you feel you are doing 'wrong' when interacting with them and give you some tips in how to curb this behaviour. It might be a simple matter of retraining [or being more disciplined with] your body language.

I doubt that most teen girls and women like to have a man staring down their cleavage or at their breasts as they pass them.
I know and I've always known that I'm never going to have sex ever. Castration is the best solution for me.

Most men do this.. but they usually do a sneeky 'quick glance'. Seinfeld covered this subject quite well.

If you have a self defeatest attitude.. you will be savotaged by it.

It's your decision. Perhaps you could just have your urges 'lessened' so you can cope with them more easily rather than completely get rid of them? I assume doctors can alter doses accordingly. In the meantime.. while you are having a 'break' from your libido.. you could work on your self worth issues. You seem to put yourself down too much.

I have to get castrated before I really get into trouble because I'm much too interested in sex.

Not sure if I'd want you to elaborate. I guess your options are, as you've already said; chemical castration, seeing a prostitute or addressing the issues that may prevent you from forming relationships in the first place.

I tend to agree that castration is a bit of a severe response. If the worst thing you do is look at women in a manner that makes them feel uncomfortable, so be it, that's life. As long as you can keep your hands to yourself and your dick in your pants, you're fine. On the other hand, if you've done worse things in the past, that's reasonable cause for concern that you might do so again in the future. Speak to a priest or a psychologist or a lawyer, someone obliged to not turn you in to the police. There is hope. If you were hopeless, you wouldn't be here. Best of luck.

Hey guys, remember when this topic was about who you were attracted to? Yeah, those were some good times, way back then.

Yeah we get on some interesting tangents now and then, don't we?

I don't mind trying to help people out though [sometimes]. Besides.. Lonermutant's main problem is being too attracted to women. It's on topic.

I'm not exactly sure if the kind of people I'm attracted to is a realistic goal for me. As a perfectionist, I tend to seek perfection in everything (including men) on my own terms. Maybe I'm destined to be alone. And maybe that's ok. I have yet to see whether thats eventually going to make me break down. Probably it will, but then again, maybe I won't live long enough to have to feel that way. You never know when your time is up. Ofcourse, I suppose I shouldn't use the hope of dying young as an excuse to not LIVE, because, what if I live a long time? I will have really screwed myself out of a relationship and alot else if I don't even bother to seek it out. But I seem to be very picky, and alot of times, EVEN if we are just talking looks-wise (but I am not shallow, I want looks, but personality too), whenever other girls think someone is HOT, I'm thinking 'uh.....whatever floats your boat'. lol.

I have been interested in different types of guys though, so I can't exactly say I am close-minded either. It just seems to be that there is no common 'type' I always fall for. it ALWAYS varies, person to person, I never seem to know who I'm gonna be attracted to next.