What kind of people are you attracted to?

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17 Jul 2006, 8:19 am

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I like girls that are slightly to moderately overweight. Our society generally gives a strong preference to thin women, just as it gives a strong preference to NTs. As a result, it makes me feel like me and such a girl already have something in common, which makes it very easy for me to relate to her. As a helpful bonus, they tend to be less picky, since given their situation, they would be more willing to accept aspie characteristics that would be a deal-breaker for "popular" women. And they're really nice to hug and cuddle with.

Yeah I feel much the same way, women who are overweight generally have low self esteem because of their weight. I have fairly low self esteem too because I am socially inept, never held down a job for long, I do not study enough at university and have achieved so little in my 23 years on this Earth. I feel like a loser because of it. Besides all that I do not think I am very attractive, average at best when you round up things, more attractive to women with self esteem issues because I am a very nice guy who is more interested in a girl's personality rather than her looks.

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17 Jul 2006, 8:25 am

For some reason this thread reminds me of 'From Dusk till dawn'.

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17 Jul 2006, 8:45 am

riley wrote:

For some reason this thread reminds me of 'From Dusk till dawn'.

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How so?

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17 Jul 2006, 9:02 am

Only those who 'get' the movie would 'get' the joke [have to read the whole thread]. One of the posts reminded me of the lead's brother.

Sorry- won't give away anymore spoilers.

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17 Jul 2006, 9:55 am

Thanks for derailing my thread, guys.

Lonermutant scares me. Actually, our entire sex-obsessed culture scares me.

I've known too many people who have been hurt by sex.

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17 Jul 2006, 9:58 am

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I've known too many people who have been hurt by sex.

That's their own fault for not properly lubricating.

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17 Jul 2006, 10:08 am

gsilver wrote:

Thanks for derailing my thread, guys.

Lonermutant scares me. Actually, our entire sex-obsessed culture scares me.

I've known too many people who have been hurt by sex.

I have an appointment with my psychologist again in 3 weeks. I'm going to demand getting some kind of chemical castration this time. We've talked a lot about my sexual frustrations and I know castration is the only way of dealing with it and stopping this idiocy once and for all.

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17 Jul 2006, 10:09 am

gsilver wrote:

Thanks for derailing my thread, guys.-

Sorry about that.

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I've known too many people who have been hurt by sex.

So do I.. in fact I probably have known more that have been than haven't which is really depressing.. makes me feel both furious and powerless.

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17 Jul 2006, 10:17 am

Lonermutant wrote:

We've talked a lot about my sexual frustrations and I know castration is the only way of dealing with it and stopping this idiocy once and for all.

No doubt it's been suggested by your Dr.. but how much has excersize helped? The other symtoms that go along with chemical castration may be very different on an aspie brain.

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17 Jul 2006, 10:21 am

riley wrote:

Lonermutant wrote:

We've talked a lot about my sexual frustrations and I know castration is the only way of dealing with it and stopping this idiocy once and for all.

No doubt it's been suggested to you by your Dr.. but how much has excersize helped? The other symtoms that go along with chemical castration may be very different on an aspie brain.

I don't need a sex drive. I'm 33, so I'm basically too old for dating and most women over 27 are in relationships and have kids and I'm too old for those under 27.

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17 Jul 2006, 10:26 am

Vinzer wrote:

That's their own fault for not properly lubricating.

bwah ha!

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17 Jul 2006, 10:32 am

Chemical castration is very extreme.. as are the side efffects. Would you mind growing breasts?

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17 Jul 2006, 10:40 am

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I'm 33, so I'm basically too old for dating

I'm 40. I've never thought for five seconds that I was too old to date. I bet that idea has never occurred either to the guys I date, most of whom are over 33.

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most women over 27 are in relationships and have kids

Well, yeah, lots of them have kids by then. But thanks to our brave new world of "relationships", a lot of them are single too.

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I'm too old for those under 27.

No you're not. A six-year age gap is nothing once you're over 21.

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17 Jul 2006, 11:30 am

I just want to be able to pass women without staring down their cleavages and to do everything else than surf for porn on the internet. I already have breasts and bad beard growth and I plan on going on a strict diet once I get the drugs.

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17 Jul 2006, 12:18 pm

Lonermutant wrote:

I just want to be able to pass women without staring down their cleavages and to do everything else than surf for porn on the internet.

Other men do not feel bad about doing these things. Why do you suppose you are not comfortable with these impluses?

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I already have breasts and bad beard growth and I plan on going on a strict diet once I get the drugs.

Breasts as in fully developed mammery glands.. not 'man-boobs'. Transexuals take female homones before ops and to grow breasts. I imagine another side effect would be a higher voice and more intense emotions. If you really want a way to decrease your libido, again intense excersize would be the most ideal as it channels the testosterone into the muscles instead.

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17 Jul 2006, 2:18 pm

I've considered trying Cipralex again as a form of chemical castration, but I don't want the "Angstfest" I had the last time.

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