Aspie_SE10 wrote:
No such thing: how shallow would someone have to be to define someone as "too tall", especially in a Love and Dating context.
Some shallowness is fine in the Love and Dating context imo. I mean I want a gf who I am physically attracted to, otherwise we'd just be friends. So I don't get why people make such a big thing out of people being "shallow" here. It seems to me the the "Love and Dating contrext" is
the context where it would be acceptable. I wouldn't want a gf who was a lot taller than me (maybe I am insecure, I will admit that?), but for everything else it shouldn't matter - ie I would never judge a woman for being too tall in the Friends or Colleagues context
Whether people like it or not, it DOES usually look stupid if a guy is with a girl who's a lot taller than him. At least I think it does, and I reckon a lot of others would too. If you're ok with that though then good for you. I just personally would want a gf who was about the same height as me or a bit shorter
Edit: and as for the OP, it all depends on how tall you are yourself. If you're fairly tall already, then I doubt it's something you#d need to worry about