cathylynn wrote:
i might tell her that you're not interested in "forever" with her and see if she still wants a relationship on your terms. that way you need not have any qualms about "settling". the downside is, she might turn you away.
who knows? perhaps you will end up liking her more as you get to know her better.
This is what I was going to post. On the other hand, if there is something about her that you know will prevent a long term relationship, I would keep it on a friendship level. I have done just that in a similar situation.
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