With everything you know about me.....

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....and how I've described myself.

What type of women do you think would go out with me? And what kind of people would be friends and hang out with me.

You can post pictures, and/or describe them.

Give honest answers if you can.

I don't really want this to turn into a troll thread.

One with extremely low self-esteem, unless you gain some self-esteem of your own.

I believe you said you're into anime and video games. There are plenty of girls who are into anime and video games, believe me, I go to an art school. There's lots of girls who draw anime characters and play Final Fantasy all day. And they usually don't have any problem dating or sleeping with guys who are kinda awkward as long as they carry themselves with confidence, take care of themselves, have good hygiene, etc...Why don't you go to some anime conventions or something? Meet some girls there?

And you should post a picture of yourself, and I'll tell you in a completely non-gay way if I think you can attract women.

I think the woman most likely to go out with you is the type I call a Fixer-Upper. This is a psychological type, not a physical type. The Fixer-Upper gets into relationships with damaged men and attempts to repair them. She is a combination of nurturing and dominant. The catch is that she can't actually ever fully succeed because then the man will decide he doesn't want to be dominated by her anynore because his repaired self isn't so needy.

You might hate this. Or you might like it. I have no idea because I don't know what really makes you tick. But that is my guess of the woman most likely to date you.

Nice, where I can find those Fixer-Uppers?

Create an intellectual feel around you.go to the library, read some cool books

Maybe you should watch this. I found it on the web, it's a show from England about people who probably have greater deformities than you:

http://www.channel4.com/programmes/kati ... ul-friends

The confidence of some of the people interviewed in this program was fantastic.

It's what's inside that counts, don't beat yourself up about looks. Everyone has something they want to change about their body.


I hate hearing that people have told you that you are ugly. What is wrong with people!? Of cours you don't feel good about your looks. Im indian and live in a mostly white location and my nose is bigger than sort of average mid-western germanic people and I got made fun of. But now i'm older I think it's part of my heritage how I look, why should i look germanic when i'm not. Ignore people, people can be so narrow minded.

But, for the love of pete, if you know you should wash, why don't you! A bar of soap costs pennies. Or find a girl with no sense of smell. I am being slightly jokey slightly serious . Soap is your friend

I've heard that the circular rubbing action of using moisturizer on your face can even skin tone, but that may not be true. Will make your face feel nice and soft though.

I'm being really girly here, but I think guys should be allowed to pamper themselves.

i'm certain that you aren't ugly in the manner that you describe. i've seen ugly, and i know that you cannot have reached that level in your youth. why don't you just show us the webcam image of you? you have nothing to fear from any of us here, who only want to be helpful.