Why are you still single ( one reason)

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1000Knives
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23 May 2012, 1:53 pm

Ztrain wrote:
scarter wrote:
Look at my profile picture. Any questions?

You seem more like a Badass than anything


I can't find said picture, but here:
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23 May 2012, 8:29 pm

Well, there's only one guy I really like and I think he's an aspie too! In this department, he contradicts himself a lot.



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23 May 2012, 10:29 pm

In short, I don't even know how to handle stuff like this. The Aspies I know are equally lost. And I just plain scare the NTs.



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24 May 2012, 3:35 am

I think I am cursed, I'm attractive and good at snowboarding but I still haven't had a girlfriend. I have trouble picking up on signs females display when they are interested in me and if I do pick up the signs, I do not know how to react. I have never met a female aspie before, that would be interesting too.



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24 May 2012, 7:25 am

I say ditto for all of you in previous 4 posts..... I find it is really rude for those NT's perspective against aspies.



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24 May 2012, 8:05 am

Because I've lost most of my motivation to look for a relationship, and I've worn out all avenues I was using to find one. Now my only chance is to look for one....*shock* OFFLINE!! 8O



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24 May 2012, 9:48 am

Im trying to work on getting the right mindset.
I spent a while avoiding interactions with females for some dumb reason and now I still get nervous around females and they can see it.. Im working on it with some decent results but I still have plenty of work to do.

This weekend for example I met some new people that get together to take pictures and talk about photography... One of them brought his partner and I politely ignored her most of the time(she was with her partner and twice my age). At some point I took a break from the photographs and used some lame conversation starter.
She wanted to talk so we talked for a while. She made sure I was feeling nice(kept telling me I was the only one talking to her and I should go more oftenly blah blah) but I didnt know what to say most of the time. I was scared of saying the wrong thing and her thinking I was just a dumb kid or something
Somehow the night went on and she kept talking to me but as you may guess 99% of the girls that are approached by me(which are quite rare)usually leave when they see that I need so much time to reply...



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24 May 2012, 5:10 pm

I guess I'm just not interested. I know people who have been in at least two relationships at this point in our lives, but I never have. Plus, the thought of it kind of weirds me out.



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24 May 2012, 5:24 pm

ComposerGal1928 wrote:
I know people who have been in at least two relationships at this point in our lives, but I never have.


But you're only 19. I'm almost 26 already and never had any physical connection with a woman.

If I turn 40 in 14 years and will still be a virgin, then this will make me feel slightly uneasy and maybe even a bit angry and sad.



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24 May 2012, 5:43 pm

I still need a break.



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25 May 2012, 12:26 pm

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:) YAY! +1 Reply :) from her

Hmm." 5 or 6 sheep. "

Ok. Yep. Soo....

I am terrible. What to do now .



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25 May 2012, 4:34 pm

Because I don't have enough confidence to ask a girl out, and i am still in pain over being cheated on.



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25 May 2012, 8:15 pm

Got out of a relationship a month ago


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25 May 2012, 8:29 pm

Live with my parents, scared of other people, don't really know anyone I'd be interested in, not even interested in dating.



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25 May 2012, 8:29 pm

Live with my parents, scared of other people, don't really know anyone I'd be interested in, not even interested in dating.



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25 May 2012, 8:29 pm

Because I enjoy being single. :D