What is your weight range in dating?

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19 Feb 2012, 7:54 pm

Do you have a particular sized person that is optimum for you? Would you go outside the box if they had a nice personality or lived an interesting life?



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19 Feb 2012, 8:51 pm

Not really. My bf is about 240 pounds at 6'1" and I love his cuddliness. :P



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19 Feb 2012, 9:07 pm

I don't have a range as long as I can put my arms around her & we can cuddle without one of us getting squished


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19 Feb 2012, 9:25 pm

Being 6'4" and steadily getting closer and closer to 200 lbs, I don't really go for the very short or very thin ones. I'm afraid I'll break them.

As for an upper limit, there is one but I'm not very good at estimating people's weights so I couldn't say what exactly it is. Higher than most women seem to find acceptable though.


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19 Feb 2012, 9:27 pm

I like thin guys. Not too muscly, not too meaty. Just a nice, thin guy, with a good bone structure. I like bones...


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19 Feb 2012, 9:28 pm

I do not have much of a weight range for dating, however, I usually prefer people who are about my weight. Too much over is bad, too much under also bad, but I am pretty thin, so I don't go much below my weight.



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19 Feb 2012, 9:32 pm

I don't have a range. I'm attracted to each personal individually. I've liked a guy who was 115, a guy who was (guesstimated) 400 and a bunch in between.



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19 Feb 2012, 9:33 pm

Don't have one.


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19 Feb 2012, 10:06 pm

Not fat, not chubby.
Shallow? Maybe a little, but I make no apologies.



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19 Feb 2012, 10:20 pm

it doesn't matter to me


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19 Feb 2012, 10:24 pm

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19 Feb 2012, 10:26 pm

I like men taller then Me and minimum my weight. Maximum probably around 400 pounds. My current boyfriend is over 300 pounds and only slightly taller then me at 6'4".


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19 Feb 2012, 10:31 pm

If I were to give a guesstimate?

5'4" to 6'0"

15% - 25% BMI


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19 Feb 2012, 10:33 pm

^^^15% BMI is severely underweight. that would be 95lb at 5'6". 8O


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19 Feb 2012, 10:34 pm

I don't really like any smaller than 200 pounds.. just over 90kgs.

Slender guys just don't do it for me.



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19 Feb 2012, 10:40 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
^^^15% BMI is severely underweight. that would be 95lb at 5'6". 8O

I probably wouldn't be into it and she'd need to have a great personality. I'd be cooking plenty for her in the meantime.


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