Hi Stuart! Welcome to Wrong Planet. Check out the different forums and articles here. They are interesting and helpful. I believe there is at least one forum here for dating Auties/Aspies. I think there is one for music and art lovers as well. You are among friends here at WP. Enjoy the site. I do!
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If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer.
Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured, or far away.--Henry David Thoreau