How emotionally attractive are you?

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03 Jun 2012, 12:02 am

Please rate yourself honestly, on a scale of 0 to 10.



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03 Jun 2012, 1:15 am

i'm compassionate, positive and supportive, but not overly demonstrative and sometimes awkward. i give myself a 5.



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03 Jun 2012, 1:34 am

define "emotionally attractive"



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03 Jun 2012, 1:35 am

3 ... I've got some good attitudes but bad habits ... like being either overbearing or withdrawn in conversation, not paying attention to people, being awkward, etc. If I could sort some of that out, adapt a bit, I might get myself up to a 7 or 8 I think.



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03 Jun 2012, 1:55 am

metaldanielle wrote:
define "emotionally attractive"


it would be great if we could set standards for 1-10 (like a pain scale) and them our answers would mean something in relation to each other
though seeing where people *think* they stack up against other people is kinda interesting in itself


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03 Jun 2012, 3:22 am

metaldanielle wrote:
define "emotionally attractive"


Good point, you can't define something that is so subjective and vague.



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03 Jun 2012, 3:59 am

I don't think I'm very emotionally attractive. I'm needy, I cry for no reason (or if there is a reason I don't know what it is), I'm anxious` all the time about everything, I need constant reassurance. Emotionally I'm a horrible person. Well you said be honest!

I suppose my good points (such as they are) is that I am kind, and I do show people that I love them, I'm not jealous and I rarely get angry. I'm not sure that the good points outweigh the bad points, frankly. Luckily for me quite a few men seem to like insecure, emotionally unstable women and I've done OK so far :)



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03 Jun 2012, 4:06 am

probaly the lowest form of attractiveness i have



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03 Jun 2012, 4:11 am

SilkySifaka wrote:
Luckily for me quite a few men seem to like insecure, emotionally unstable women and I've done OK so far :)


Insecurity and vulnerability can be very attractive to some men, some men might feel the need to fix or protect you in some way.



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03 Jun 2012, 4:15 am

Ugh probably a "0," though I do have rare moments where I do well, so I'll say it averages out to a "2."



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03 Jun 2012, 5:43 am

Wolfheart wrote:
SilkySifaka wrote:
Luckily for me quite a few men seem to like insecure, emotionally unstable women and I've done OK so far :)


Insecurity and vulnerability can be very attractive to some men, some men might feel the need to fix or protect you in some way.


Yes but eventually they realise that they can't fix me, and that makes them angry or upset. My boyfriend now doesn't try and fix me, and I don't try to change him. A lot of women seem to go out with men in the hope they can change them in some way, but I don't do that because I know what it's like to be on the receiving end.



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03 Jun 2012, 6:13 am

0, I'm as cold as a damn stone.


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03 Jun 2012, 8:55 am

2 or 3. I can pretend to be emotionally skilled, and not everyone will see through it.



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03 Jun 2012, 9:14 am

edgewaters wrote:
3 ... I've got some good attitudes but bad habits ... like being either overbearing or withdrawn in conversation, not paying attention to people, being awkward, etc. If I could sort some of that out, adapt a bit, I might get myself up to a 7 or 8 I think.


I think emotionally I am fine, but I have the same weaknesses here, especially being awkward and withdrawn, so find I don't connect emotionally very well with others and would also end up with a low score.



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03 Jun 2012, 9:15 am

Depends on the culture, on whether the girl wants a relationship or just wants casual sex etc.



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03 Jun 2012, 11:39 am

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