Dont hate the player or the game. (pua hate)

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This thread, strangely, is restoring my faith in humanity.

I will if someone gives me the flight money because i'm a poor student.

I'd like to go to a friendly meet-up! One where I can talk to some nice folks and maybe a nice lady or two without other men getting bent-out-of-shape due to jealousy, and without the need to whip off the shirts and boast the level of manliness.

North America though... overseas flights are a bit much.

You guys could always meet in the Azores too. It's roughly in the middle.

Oh, more pua talk...

I have witnessed some men completely losing themselves, as well as their professional and love lives in the desperate pursuit of becoming a master pua. When you go deep enough in the pua world, it dehumanizes both men and women and becomes a desperate game of numbers without gain or pleasure.

I've met Mystery in person and was far from impressed. After a long debate, he wanted a picture with me and asked me to add him on Skype. Eventually I did, and now my wall on Skype is filled with suicidal/depressed status updates from him begging to be noticed and pitied. So much for "building a life" which was what he described the concept of pua to be. I truly feel sorry for this guy.

Confidence and knowledge of basic psychology helps when wanting to approach a person, but the more I've learn about pua, the more I've seen how personal growth and attempts to become a better person are irrelevant to pua ideology. No matter how eloquently one tries to phrase the pua methods, ultimately it is about manipulating as many girls to bed as possible. Dating or long-term relationships are utterly foreign territory.

Taking a hint here and there and adjusting them to fit one's personality can help someone, but overall, the whole pua concept is just.... Sad.

^^^ Awesome, Lilya.

Ohhh I remember I read you sometime before posting about Mystery.

I agree, personal growth is a better way to put effort with than getting girls in general. But I repeat, there are things to be learnt out of some of them. The one I liked the most was in a long term relationship and stuff, and it sounded like it was going well.

^^^ I seriously thought about a very mild testosterone enhancer of some kind... if it leads to this kind of stuff, I'm going to avoid it at all costs. I'd rather remain just a little effeminate than become something I'm not.