I feel like a Virgin Loser
I completely agree. I think he should be banned. He just spreads vitriol and pushes people's buttons- or tries to. He's not actually that affective, but in his attempts he is most annoying.
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I completely agree. I think he should be banned. He just spreads vitriol and pushes people's buttons- or tries to. He's not actually that affective, but in his attempts he is most annoying.
He is entitled to his opinion as so are you within logic and reason. Simply because you find someone annoying doesn't mean you have the right to have them banned, you need a good logical reason before making a strong point against someone.
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I don't think lack of experience is a negative, for women. Many guys would cherish someone who was not experienced, and a lot of men wouldn't like a girl who's been around too much, if you know what i mean. I can't speak for everyone, but it certainly wouldn't sit well with me. I'd prefer someone a little closer to my experience level. I can't expect a girl who hasn't had a BF before, they are practically non existent at my age, but a lot of guys will feel uncomfortable if she's had too much experience.
For some reason, being an inexperienced guy is a turn off for a lot of women. I would have thought she'd like to feel special, and I'd have thought being number 1000 conquest wouldn't make you feel very special and wanted.
I think if people here searched for people of a similar experience level, we'd have more success in these matters
I would actually really like a bf that has no experience or not much of it. I have yet to meet a nice guy. As a lady, I don't think it's a turn off at all! But rather sweet. Maybe it's because the only guys that are attracted to me and the only ones I can get are people who want a one night relationship
Yeah I think we should be looking for people with similar wants and values to ourselves. This can be hard to find. Many aspies can be a bit old fashioned. So, I am unlikely to meet someone I'm compatible with in some sleazy bar, for example. Question is, where DO you find them these days? There's always online dating, but I don't trust that. I've heard a lot of horror stories about it from people.
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I feel the same, and no, to be honest.... I am not thankful for that now at this age (30).
You're not old lol. So, you're lacking "experience" too?
2012 was my true first year of experience in that area; to an extent.
so you lost the v-card.
Not really, been really close to it though, few times.
That's sad. I always thought you were funny and nice
I know you've been dating girls, so I'm wondering if you've had opportunities that you didn't take? Or have you never had the option of turning down an offer?
Do people in that region believe more in abstinence until marriage?
I lost my virginity when I was 17 to a girl I didn't even like (I was depressed and figured I'd take what I could get), and I kept losing the erection in the middle of the experience. Also I had sex a dozen times or so with a girl I did sincerely like last year.
I thought that was kind of odd because I thought you were more naturally socially gifted than myself.
All offers turned down by me.
The first was by a girl from a clan family (nasty people) - so I didn't screw with her.
The second wanted unsafe sex.
The third wanted sex after first date but told her to slow down - then things went badly.
Ahh and there was one by a 19 yo girl, she's too young (she was too horny but to anxious too) so I letted her go.
All during last year.
I am far from socially gifted.
Being a virgin doesn't equal being a loser.
It just means you haven't had sexual intercourse with someone.
Unless of course you think a lack of sex equals being a loser, well I'd say thinking that makes you a loser (well, not really, rather silly) and you're a slave to hormones (you only want to have sex because of species propagation after all).
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(PS: Don't feed the troll.)
LOL...REJECTED by a virgin maybe you should take a hint, dude. Can't help but feel your negativity towards this person is fueled by rejection and your own agenda.
There are a lot of people that delete threads/posts or remove the content because it's very personal and they want at least a handful of the public to know but not leave it out there long enough for people closer to them in real life to find it. Get over it, man.
EDIT: Just saw the suspension notice. Bahaha!
Jess, welcome to WP, BTW. Don't feel bad about your position. It's better nothing has happened at all than something bad you may regret. All underlying issues you may have will be fixed over time. I found this forum to be helpful in understanding my past behaviour. It will probably be very useful to you, too, if not good for just moral support
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I completely agree. I think he should be banned. He just spreads vitriol and pushes people's buttons- or tries to. He's not actually that affective, but in his attempts he is most annoying.
He is entitled to his opinion as so are you within logic and reason. Simply because you find someone annoying doesn't mean you have the right to have them banned, you need a good logical reason before making a strong point against someone.
He is indeed entitled to his opinion within logic and reason, but you clearly haven't noiced that wtfid2 does not state his opinion within such bounds, but instead is willfully provocative, insulting and non-sensical in many of his posts.
I did not even remotely suggest he should be banned for being annoying; the reason I think he should be banned is for being offensive and derailing threads from their original subject.
I specifically said (if you would kindly care to re-read what I wrote) that his attempts at pushing people's buttons are ''most annoying'', rather than being particularly affective.
It is the fact that he tries so hard to push buttons that justifies him being banned. His being an annoyance is merely a side effect of that tyranny, not the primary justification.
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Why a rejection by a virgin would be greater (and more 'surprising' and funnier) than a rejection by a non-virgin?
That won't make the OP feels any better.
I personally don't believe it makes any difference, but I figured the offending poster would be more hung up on it than you or I. I guess that's a reportable offence no hard feelings, OP. As Boo implies, it really isn't that big a deal.
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