I feel like a Virgin Loser
(PS: Don't feed the troll.)
I haven't been on here for that long. Yeah, it says been here since August I think but didn't do a whole lot for the first few months. If you are gonna be mean to me and make me feel worse than I already feel, then go away. I don't need it right now.
I also dont ignore people who take me up on my offer to be fb friends.
i predict this thread will be deleted soon.
btw you claim you're pretty and also claim you've had part time bfs or bfs where you;ve screwed it up so it's your fault you have no bf.
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AQ 25
Your Aspie score: 101 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 111 of 200
You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits
Jessicella
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: 23 Aug 2012
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 63
Location: Somewhere in North Carolina
*bites lip* and thinks, "I'm not gonna say anything. I'm not gonna say anything."
edit: ok I don't even know what the hell you are talking about. you got some serious issues. If you want to be my friend so badly give me your email and we can be best friends! yay!! !! ! feel better?
Jessi, don't let anyone bully you into doing anything you might regret later.
You seem nice, so why not post your problems in The Haven instead?
Posters there are supposed to be considerate, while those who start threads in L&D risk being harassed by every troll that happens along.
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edit: ok I don't even know what the hell you are talking about. you got some serious issues. If you want to be my friend so badly give me your email and we can be best friends! yay!! !! ! feel better?
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AQ 25
Your Aspie score: 101 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 111 of 200
You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits
Allowing you five posts to spit acid is more than you deserve so don't push your luck any further, Ok?
i also dont think that telling her that her lack of bf is her fault is really something that is spitting acid either.
but since you think im trolling ill drop this issue.
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AQ 25
Your Aspie score: 101 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 111 of 200
You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits
Hello there! Mr. Obnoxious to the rescue!
I'm sorry to hear that, Jessicella. There's never a good time of year to feel depressed, but being depressed around Christmas and New Year has to be the bloody pits.
If you're in distress, then The Haven would probably be a better place to start.
I understand!
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Same here. I'm 24 - though I have an appendage, whereas you do not - and I'll tell you, it's not easy for any of us. I'm sorry to hear that you're having it tough. As that old advert says, "join our club".
Me too, I'd guess.
You know, a lot of men find that sort of thing very endearing and sexy.
Good stuff.
I empathise, because I'm in a similar situation.
Yup.
No, you didn't. It just wasn't the right time, or possibly even the right person. If that was the right person, he'd come around in the end and be patient with you. That's all it really needs.
Then it is special for you. It may well not be for them.
Most of us are. You want someone who will reflect your weirdness and quirkiness well, and can adapt to it for you. You don't want to be completely normal and dead-on boring, because that's pretty much where every bugger else is.
What do you want to be on crap like that for?! I was on it for a while a few years back and found it to be a complete waste of time. As a man, you get rejected by everyone and I'm sure that as a woman you'll get a lot of interest from desperate loners and not-very-nice people looking for a shag.
Depending on where you live, have you thought about spending time on online forums that are relevant to your interests? You may well find people like that.
I understand, but this isn't good to be doing. Look towards packing it in sharpish.
What do you mean? No motorways and such?
I replied to it as well - how about that?
You probably want people to sympathise and empathise and offer support. Don't worry; it's a normal, human thing to want, to desire that.
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I think that lying about your age is a really bad idea...it's never a good idea to start off a friendship with a lie. And it sounds from your post like you are overly critical of yourself and your situation. There are plenty of people here, myself included, who are in relatively similar circumstances, but your outlook can make a huge difference in your outcome. If you think of yourself as a "virgin loser", then that perception can unconsciously rub off on other people...improving your opinion of yourself can have a huge impact on your overall well-being, including how others view you.
I like what you say about being nervous and viewing this in a positive way. Another thing for me is if I find myself wondering and looking forward to how a person would react to something.
Well, you go to the club or church or whatever to meet like minded people so you can get phone numbers and hang out outside of the club.
Stop viewing yourself this way. That's the first thing you really need to do. Self perceptions can and do perpetuate conditions. If something is that limiting of a belief, that it makes you think you have no worth, then that belief has zero value and just causes mental clutter that makes it harder to get through the day. There's an economy to the psyche, and basic beliefs can be a serious draw on mental resources. If you really want physical and emotional intimacy in your life, don't be afraid of being passionate either. Be passion incarnate, in everything you do, whether it relates to the opposite sex or washing dishes, waiting tables, or banging on a drum. Do it all from your heart, and the universe will repay you. I promise.
Jessicella
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: 23 Aug 2012
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 63
Location: Somewhere in North Carolina
Thanks for the input. I can be very critical of myself. And I do know from my research and this site especially that there are plenty of people like this. I do actually like myself...it's just that the past week I've been feeling down about myself and I think it's because of some guy I was talking to.
Jessicella
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: 23 Aug 2012
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 63
Location: Somewhere in North Carolina
ya I don't know why I'm making such a big deal of this. I need to stop beating myself up...just been a rough few days I guess.
"We" have not gone off-topic - the majority of us are still very much ON topic!
Thanks for the input. I can be very critical of myself. And I do know from my research and this site especially that there are plenty of people like this. I do actually like myself...it's just that the past week I've been feeling down about myself and I think it's because of some guy I was talking to.
I'm sorry. As I said, you seem nice, so please don't be too critical of yourself - a little bit is okay, because it keeps you from becoming prideful and critical of others - but try to focus on the things that are good about you and that you are good at.
This may seem trivial, but I like the fact that your posts are well-written and easy to read. For me, this is a big plus. It means that you are intelligent and educated - more big pluses. I've never read any posts of yours where you were mean or arrogant - still more pluses!
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Jessicella
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: 23 Aug 2012
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 63
Location: Somewhere in North Carolina
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