Do girls find it extra hot when big guys bully small guys?

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I have always seen bullies of both genders as unattractive losers who feel they have to prove something.
People with genuine confidence and power feel no need to put others down.

Now the idea of bullying disturbs me, as I prefer smaller guys (I'm short) and picking on someone who isn't your size isn't a good idea. If he bullies another guy, what's to keep him from bullying me? I prefer being around people, male or female, who are fellow outcasts or just normal 'beta' types.

Out of your 42 posts you have managed to do at least two threads attacking females(against the rules and more importantly whenever someone blames an entire gender for their problem it makes me wonder if they could be the main cause for their problems).

Are you aware that the cause of your problem may be beyond women?.
Maybe you aren´t meeting women on the right place or you have extremely low self steem(guilty on both, working on the first one because its simpler to fix right now) or whatever.

Just so we are clear I just want the rule breaking threads to stop before we have to go down official warning road.


As for your question?
Ive only met one woman who talked about being impressed by the ability to threaten another male. She was an airhead and she didnt know what she wanted so if all of them are like that I can safely say you are better off not dating someone like her

That sort of behavior is a huge turn off. Then again I am not very into the jock/alpha male kind of guy. Also because I was VERY bullied from years 9 to 18 I am hyper aware of people being bullied and I hate it.

The majority of women I meet like decisive men who are strong both emotionally and physically. Women want to feel protected and safe around their man. From my experience, bullying may be a turn off to them because they might wonder at which point the abuse comes their way.

I'm certainly not, but I know girls who are attracted to that kind of person. I've been bullied by males and females, but not physically. They would only say cruel things. I hate seeing people bullied.

I'm very much repulsed by "Alpha males" or any bully.I'm attracted to smart guys though, more than anything.

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I can't imagine being attracted someone bullying someone smaller or bullying anyone period. It repulses me actually. I don't understand the need to be a bully. This includes female bullies... Or parent bullies... or spouse bullies... the list can go on....

It disgusts me. I find it hotter when a guy is funny, but doesn't have to put those around him down to do it.

I find that type of behavior to be appalling. It shows insecurity and stupidity and when I see someone act in that way I lose all respect for them immediately.

But then again I am attracted to shy, intelligent males-those bald overly muscular buffoons I see at the gym make me vomit in my mouth a little.
That's just my 2 cents.

I think that your view of things may be slightly skewed by your personal experiences, Ratae. I can't pretend to speak for women, but I highly doubt that very many at all are actually attracted to bullying or bullies. The ones that are, are usually just as much of a bully or jerk themselves.

Are you serious?
I cannot understand how a grown women without psychopathology can be attracted to someone that BULLIES and HURTS other people.

So no. And I hated those guys in highschool as well.

What a weird question.