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equestriatola
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01 Jun 2013, 7:12 pm

So, I am not married yet. But I am a bit worried for when the time comes.

As an Asian man, I feel like there is MUCH more pressure on me than the woman I am marrying, because I have to carry on the family name.......... and I have other worries as well (most especially in my case that I am moving to the greater L.A. area). WHAT'S A MAN TO DO?!


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01 Jun 2013, 7:35 pm

What is your age and ethnicity? How picky are your parents (especially your mother)? Have they already arranged some candidates for you?



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01 Jun 2013, 7:37 pm

26, and I am on the verge of having a GF, and no, my parents, despite being rather Asian in nature, have wanted me to be free about whom I choose.


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01 Jun 2013, 8:26 pm

equestriatola wrote:
26, and I am on the verge of having a GF, and no, my parents, despite being rather Asian in nature, have wanted me to be free about whom I choose.


Asian in nature???


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01 Jun 2013, 8:28 pm

Yeah, typical Asian parents.


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02 Jun 2013, 12:21 pm

To clarify: Almost Mormon-like in their upbringing, and fairly strict.


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02 Jun 2013, 12:24 pm

RELAX. Stress has no benefit in this situation.