The main reason why women don't date us

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It's simple really. We aren't too manly enough. The next time you see a girl, smack her in the butt and you might find yourself inside her butt lol

p.s. I didn't literally mean to smack her in butt like that but you understand what I am trying to say.

Yeah. Thing is you don't make yourself more manly by telling yourself so. It is a psychological disposition you're given really.

Many women do like to see some sort of dominate behavior. Smacking the ass of a stranger might be too literal though.

Maybe we just don't LOOK manly enough physically?

I'm starting to think more and more that this is a physical thing, not a mental/behavior thing.

Anyway, I'm working the weights and I'm not gonna stop, ever.

Any b***h tries to play nice with me, they'll be entering a world of pain.

As far as many of the date-less men on WP go, I'd say it's because they are selfish, self-centred and self-pitying.

I base my comment on the many posts I have read on this forum.

^...the hell is Haley Joel Osment doing in this thread?

I think women want men who are strong, secure and self-confident. Which may be a problem for Aspie men because -- as it is for Aspie women too -- the world can sometimes be overwhelming and NTs' behavior can be confusing. That doesn't mean an Aspie can't become strong and self-confident, but it might take longer than it does NTs and be easier to achieve if he's able to become independent and self-supporting.

A lot of women seem to confuse over-testosteroned caveman behavior with self-confidence, I'm afraid. The whole "bad boy" idiocy.

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Being overly neanderthal and boorish only gets you women that are extreme;y insecure or simple minded. Basically these kinds of men generally can only get women for brief encounters or "hook ups". The kind of women who sleep around and sorry guys you do not want this. It's disgusting. Stay clear of ones that go back to your place on the first date. Who knows what vile STD they have picked up. I shudder at the thought.

Be intelligent, caring, loving and try to have at least some self-confidence and you will find the woman of your dreams it just takes a long time! Honestly for me I am only interested in a long term relationship with a caring and compassionate woman who likes my aspie traits. I do not want a hook-up for one night.

^^ LOL, touché

Because girls generally are attracted to those who don't fear life, and we tend to do just that. We shouldn't.

The reason is simple: the best survivors are those who don't let fear hold them back - only actual danger!


Afraid:




Not afraid:




Some difference!