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14 Dec 2013, 9:43 pm

how come when I didn't use pickup lines
and hit on women that were not 19,they
still never went out with me. The best I got
was platonic friendship. I've hit on women mid
20's-early 30's not using PUA lines,and still
no GF or the like.so,it must be my accent,
or how I talk.Im 6 ft,strong,take shower,and
is ok looking.Im just lucky I have a close
female friend,that made the first move.

but still,I just can't attract women,the traditional
approach way.



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14 Dec 2013, 9:50 pm

It's the same thing I'm sure you have been told in many posts. Something just didn't click. Sometimes you can't explain it.

I honestly don't know why you keep posting these threads. You have a girl interested in you. You are interested in her back.

Seize the day and enjoy it, and stop bitching online. You'll be much happier if you look at what is in front of you.



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14 Dec 2013, 10:10 pm

This will not be directed at just you Bill... but this is a question to anyone who reads this.

Isnt hitting on someone still considered a PUA tactic?


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14 Dec 2013, 10:15 pm

aspiemike wrote:
This will not be directed at just you Bill... but this is a question to anyone who reads this.

Isnt hitting on someone still considered a PUA tactic?


Hitting on someone is a basic expression of interest in the other person. If someone considers that PUA, I almost wonder if they'd view all of dating as PUA.



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14 Dec 2013, 10:24 pm

thewhitrbbit wrote:
aspiemike wrote:
This will not be directed at just you Bill... but this is a question to anyone who reads this.

Isnt hitting on someone still considered a PUA tactic?


Hitting on someone is a basic expression of interest in the other person. If someone considers that PUA, I almost wonder if they'd view all of dating as PUA.


I just looked at hitting on people as using cheesy lines for the most part. Something I was never good at.


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14 Dec 2013, 11:44 pm

thewhitrbbit wrote:
It's the same thing I'm sure you have been told in many posts. Something just didn't click. Sometimes you can't explain it.

I honestly don't know why you keep posting these threads. You have a girl interested in you. You are interested in her back.

Seize the day and enjoy it, and stop bitching online. You'll be much happier if you look at what is in front of you.


oh,yeah.I do. lucky me. I do have a lady.sometimes I just ponder about things.



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15 Dec 2013, 12:46 am

billiscool wrote:

oh,yeah.I do. lucky me. I do have a lady.sometimes I just ponder about things.


Be careful about expressing these thoughts to the girl that likes you or your girlfriend


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15 Dec 2013, 1:28 am

aspiemike wrote:
billiscool wrote:

oh,yeah.I do. lucky me. I do have a lady.sometimes I just ponder about things.


Be careful about expressing these thoughts to the girl that likes you or your girlfriend


actual just one,my best female friend,we are very close. she's like a GF.



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15 Dec 2013, 4:53 am

billiscool wrote:
how come when I didn't use pickup lines
and hit on women that were not 19,they
still never went out with me. The best I got
was platonic friendship. I've hit on women mid
20's-early 30's not using PUA lines,and still
no GF or the like.so,it must be my accent,
or how I talk.Im 6 ft,strong,take shower,and
is ok looking.Im just lucky I have a close
female friend,that made the first move.

but still,I just can't attract women,the traditional
approach way.


it's the way you think, they aren't used to it. and besides. trust issues, people don't trust loners.



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16 Dec 2013, 10:52 am

aspiemike wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
aspiemike wrote:
This will not be directed at just you Bill... but this is a question to anyone who reads this.

Isnt hitting on someone still considered a PUA tactic?


Hitting on someone is a basic expression of interest in the other person. If someone considers that PUA, I almost wonder if they'd view all of dating as PUA.


I just looked at hitting on people as using cheesy lines for the most part. Something I was never good at.

Hitting on people is normal. It becomes PUA when deception and psychological manipulation is added on top of that.