So I've got a wonderful new GF...

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...and we've done the French tongue dancing, and at no point did she ever resist me in any way cause she clearly wanted it.

I have absolutely nothing to say to certain members of this forum...THIS IS WHAT THINGS SHOULD BE LIKE.

My NT younger brother lives with me right now after getting divorced about a year ago from a very short marriage. Just recently he got another hot GF after using some dating site for just like a month or so. Now he goes over there and stays the night a couple days a week. I guess it must be cause he's a good-looking NT in his 20's that drives a new sport utility vehicle.

Just thought that's a good example of how easy NTs have it in this area. Also sounds like the proper way to use a dating-site. (i.e. delete account after getting a good-looking gf very quickly)

I still want a gf. But girls think this is bad, in order to get a girlfriend I have to not want one.

The reason "stop looking" and related advice works is because it takes the edge off of meeting and talking to prospective new partners. I strongly recommend it. I've managed to find BOTH of my girlfriends when I wasn't looking for them.

Focus your attention away from finding and chatting up prospective girls and onto self-improvement, and girls literally seem to fall right into your lap so long as you go out and socialize in general.

* scoffs * Everyone knows girls don't like the tongue (or anything having to do with sexy times.)

Thumbs up for you.

Congratulations, it sounds like things are good for you.

Except the tongue dancing, that sounds pretty disgusting, but I realize that's my own problem.

I suppose I should include some context just in case some of you don't realize. There's been a few threads on the topic some of you might not have read.

My last GF would tend to resist my advances (but also at the same time make a bit of a fuss when I stopped making them), and the advice I was given by certain members was to basically keep going despite these apparent objections.

Yea, f**k that s**t.

Shau: Respect +2

Good luck with this one Shau, I hope this one works out for you.

I second this!! Congrats, Shau All the best

Or you could be a punky nerd and see who likes you spunky swagger. Be happy, it is all you need to do.

ps Yah hooray hooplah now he wont be a jerk. jk

Yay, this one sounds sane

*applause* Congrats to you, my friend.

Errr...just a word of warning, you may want to avoid that particular phrasing in real life conversations.

It would hardly be a problem in context.