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Jamesy
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09 Jan 2014, 4:35 pm

I am very slim, intelligent, got great hair, lovely eyes and people say I look like keanu reeves.....so why the hell am I not many girls cup of tea? It really pisses me off


Granted I am only 5'7 1/2 in height that should not matter right?



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09 Jan 2014, 4:49 pm

I don't know. Girls being the social experts want guys who meet their social requirements? Can you talk to girls okay..? Do you have any female friends?



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09 Jan 2014, 5:00 pm

catwhisperer wrote:
I don't know. Girls being the social experts want guys who meet their social requirements? Can you talk to girls okay..? Do you have any female friends?



No female friends really

Judging from my post could it be my attitude?



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09 Jan 2014, 5:36 pm

I have seen beautiful and intelligent woman infatuated with guys who look like a cross between Quasimodo and Mr Hyde. Girls seem to be most attracted to guys who seem self assured. So, don't hunch like a beaten dog and act like nothings going your way. Also, don't act or pretend to be something you aren't or don't want to be. Girls are humans after all, so imagine how you would react if some random guy started rambling and boasting about his skills or life. Above all, I always hear girls say that they want to feel needed like a part to a puzzle. So act like you enjoy their company and are listen to what they are saying.


Lots of good advice here:

http://www.artofmanliness.com/


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09 Jan 2014, 6:06 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Judging from my post could it be my attitude?


YES.



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09 Jan 2014, 6:10 pm

When you described yourself I thought you were a girl.. Until you said Keanu Reeves, then I was like what?


Don't let your height get in the way. I'm shorter than you and have had many dates and relationships.

Remember for every short guy, there's an even shorter girl out there! :wink:



Although 2 of the girl I dated were taller than me. Most of them are around my height, and I've had a few that were quite a bit shorter than I. (The shortest being 4'10 8O )



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09 Jan 2014, 8:05 pm

Because looks are not everything.


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