Who here thinks the Alpha/Beta Male theory is false?

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There are alphas. But they're rare. Besides myself I know one other alpha male and two other alpha females. All are nice people that have no problem with accepting others. The two genders have separate packs so the leaders of the same gender are chosen subconsciously. Nothing violent, nothing immoral. The packs like said people a lot. There is no competition involved. All this is good to know. Gay males belong in the male pack, gay females belong in the female pack. Everyone, no matter who they are is accepted. Noone is a bad person. We've also found the answer to bullying in general. Turns out that when people offend others, those others retaliate. So they're misunderstandings. It just needs to be talked out. I'd question how humans would have survived in nature if they kept in packs of three people. The liking of the alpha seems to be very subconscious and even if pointed out, people don't seem to notice it. We always thought nature was amazing but wow. Sometimes they bully to impress alphas but that's because of the stereotypes. The alphas disapprove and can stop it peacefully. Interestingly, if a female is sexually mature and not in a relationship, she will be instantly attracted to an alpha male. But not if in a relationship which implies they don't need to reproduce any more than others. We originally discovered this when we were trying to achieve a utopia. A world that would be fair for all. A world without corruption and bullying. Probably because I was bullied once but I'm best friends with my "bullies" now. And every other male in school. Also works online. So nature is even more amazing right? We have no doubts about this anymore. The election system also doesn't seem that bad. Except that there should be two leaders. One male and the other female. No, they don't have to be in a relationship.

I think that many females are still rooted to their basic, primitive tastes in men. those tastes tell them that they want a man who constantly dominates others.

Personally I think the whole idea is hilarious. Something is only true if you believe it to be so, I certainly don't believe in this nonsense.

Would you be friends with an active racist, just because he wasn't racist against your particular type?

He goes to the zoo for dating tips? From gorillas?!

perhaps it's strange, but i was always drawn to develop friendships with people whose morality/basic code of values more or less matched my own. i've always found relationships with people who don't match me in that particular way don't last--how could they?

I find it easy to be friends with people of different religious or even (less often) political views than my own, but I tend to feel that someone who categorically disrespects or dislikes large groups of other people, based only on their category, is not trustworthy; ie, he or she only likes me because he assumes I'm w,x,y, and z, and if he found out that I'm actually n,x,y, and z, he'd turn me in to the SS (or, in the real world, drop me as a friend and/or hurt me) in a heartbeat. For instance, would my white-supremacist 'friend' still be my 'friend' if he knew that my dark hair and eyes come from a Dakota Sioux great grandmother? Would my ableist 'friend' still be my friend if he found out I consider myself borderline autistic? Would my homophobic 'friend' still be my friend if he found out that I get undressed in the dressing room at the dojo with gay people, and it doesn't bother me? And so on.

Would your sexist 'friend' mock you and call you 'pussy-whipped' or 'hen-pecked' or insinuate that you're a coward if you treated your spouse's/girlfriends opinions as being as valid, and having as much weight, as his own? Would he make comments like, 'Bros before ho's' if you chose to do something to strengthen your relationship with your wife and/or family, rather than doing something with him? If you had a daughter or a young sister, would he see them as legitimate targets (or refrain from treating them as targets only because they are your "property")?

Yes. A good person makes a good friend; a bad person makes a bad 'friend,' whose friendship is contingent and who, like as not, is just using you for some ulterior motive rather than true friendship or loyalty.