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30 Jan 2014, 8:47 am

Switch off the lights, or place a bag over their head.



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02 Feb 2014, 3:35 am

Once the hormones start flowing I don't think shyness is an issue!


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02 Feb 2014, 1:02 pm

namaste wrote:
I often wonder how people have sex without feeling shy...
i mean removing their clothes in front of strangers
if they have good figure well and good
what about those who are plum do they feel embrassed
to have sex with their dates


Who removes their clothes in front of strangers?
Who removes their clothes with their "date."
Sluts do. :P



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02 Feb 2014, 1:50 pm

FunkMasterMike wrote:
Who removes their clothes in front of strangers?
Who removes their clothes with their "date."
Sluts do. :P


I'm not embarrassed to be naked in front of other people, date or not. I'm embarrassed to be doing something socially wrong in front of other people, because if I didn't think embarrassed to be naked, I wouldn't be as socially appropriate. And there is nothing wrong with having sex with a stranger...unless, you know, you're a paranoid religious bigot who's never heard of a condom. I'll never have sex with a stranger because I fear the "change in our feelings for one another" that I'm expected to have, but don't.



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02 Feb 2014, 2:47 pm

Mindslave wrote:
FunkMasterMike wrote:
Who removes their clothes in front of strangers?
Who removes their clothes with their "date."
Sluts do. :P


I'm not embarrassed to be naked in front of other people, date or not. I'm embarrassed to be doing something socially wrong in front of other people, because if I didn't think embarrassed to be naked, I wouldn't be as socially appropriate. And there is nothing wrong with having sex with a stranger...unless, you know, you're a paranoid religious bigot who's never heard of a condom. I'll never have sex with a stranger because I fear the "change in our feelings for one another" that I'm expected to have, but don't.


I don't like the risks with "sex with a stranger." Not to mention, even with the super-thin condoms, still can't feel jack. :P
I'm not religious, or paranoid, but "paranoid religious bigot" is such a cliche term for people who enjoy stability and consistency. I've had a few one-night stands...not my thing.
Not to mention STD's...and getting someone pregnant..../puke.
Men and women, both can be sluts...(aka those people who love one-night stands)



02 Feb 2014, 3:07 pm

they might.

Like for men if they have a centimeter peter they might feel embarrassed. They make up for that by being extra kinky.



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02 Feb 2014, 8:46 pm

I don't like the risks either. And I shouldn't have make the bigot remark, because it was wrong. Generally, anyone worth having sex with is worth spending real quality time with.



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02 Feb 2014, 11:50 pm

I've never been shy about my physique but I get shy about my sexual requests. Funny thing is that I'm quite certain of myself but when I make a request of a person I don't know and only met, Idon't know then how they will react and I just automatically blush.
I'm a quiet one and always think that what I'll say will be very bad or misunderstood.

*shrugs* hmm


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17 Feb 2014, 12:47 pm

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^ I don't regret my first time, even though the guy was a douche. I do kinda regret not doing it sooner, drunker, with a different douche :P

Back on the topic of anytime sex, I think there's value in sober, tipsy and drunk sex. Each has its own dynamic. Part of the excitement of sober sex is, in fact, that you may be more nervous about getting naked. The adrenaline that comes with that can be good!


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