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Have you experienced similar? (only answer if you are male)
yes 13%  13%  [ 8 ]
no 88%  88%  [ 56 ]
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02 Feb 2014, 3:36 am

I hope this is a joke because now I feel like avoiding you and Im a guy! 8O


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02 Feb 2014, 3:40 am

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It is not an obvious common knowledge, people know little about the rapist "sexuality". And some radical feminists believe that most men have a required rooted mindset to be rapists, that's not true tho.


According to my studies, most men are expected to have a subconscious rape psychology, but it has be triggered by abusive female peers. If a man has a rape psychology, feminists can blame themselves for it.



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Most sex offenders were not sexually or physically abused as children. In one study of 114 convicted rapists, 91% denied experiencing childhood sexual abuse; 66% denied experiencing childhood physical abuse; and 50% admitted to having non-violent childhoods. (Scully, 1990).

http://m.sapac.umich.edu/article/196



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02 Feb 2014, 4:13 am

Apparently I didn't read well enough, and the OP already answered some of my questions before I asked them.

So, to clarify:

You don't have rape fantasies
You don't really take any enjoyment thinking about it
This happened years ago
It was more of a physical reaction, and that sparked the risk analysis of rape in those situations


Overall, I'd say if your hormones are really out of whack, it might be possible for some men to have a strong physical reaction like that. I'm not sure they'd jump into calculating the scenario of rape in real time, but it might happen. Regardless, I think a certain population of males do this. They are the rapists, and it probably starts in teenage years. However, these men are often manipulative and use alcohol as a tool. They also don't magically stop being that way when they have sex for the first time.


Well, I'm really glad your first time having sex made it go away.



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02 Feb 2014, 5:05 am

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Man, I just made a joke in a very troubling topic. There's no reason to read into it any further than that.


Stay calm, and do not worry.

I was tempted to make a joke at the expense of 4chan, but I instantly thought better of it. I thought I should also warn the others in this thread about the rule which WP has which would have made the joke against the rules.

WP has few rules but those it has are good ones, we need to avoid any conduct here which results in a war or feud between the people on wrong planet and those on another web site. Even if it would be funny or right (in our minds) to start to mock another web site here it is a bad idea.

I would say that jokes about rape are not funny and are the height of bad taste. Jokes about odd information sources however can be acceptable but as it was commented in the film "Green Mile" maybe you do not want to get some funny idea into your head which you might blurt out later, so it is best to be careful what you joke about.


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02 Feb 2014, 7:06 am

To calm you down.
It`s six years ago last time. At the time I was very frustrated both about lack of sex and also other things that are now resolved. I started this thread because in this subforum I saw many more or less frustrated men.

I have since then had many encounters with girls (especially lonely travelers) in more vulnerable settings and sometimes been unregistered in area and anonym, without any reaction such as this at all.


What I eventually did was starting to see prostitutes. I prefer the ones who give a GFE girlfriend experience over the ones who act almost like you are raping them.

While I do not have typical rape fantasies its not what I think about when I masturbate, but when in lucid dreams that I (partially) control I have forced girls sometimes and reason for that is that even in my dreams girl reject me and go away, the focus is not on forcing them but on sex. In my normal dreams I have never forced any.



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02 Feb 2014, 9:40 pm

Some men get frustrated because they feel a woman is obligated to give them the time of day and never try to change their approach. Since rape is, a lot of times, about control, it makes sense that some men might have had the experience you had.

Note: No, I'm not calling the men on here future rapists.



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02 Feb 2014, 11:13 pm

TheGoggles wrote:
crubs wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It is not an obvious common knowledge, people know little about the rapist "sexuality". And some radical feminists believe that most men have a required rooted mindset to be rapists, that's not true tho.


According to my studies, most men are expected to have a subconscious rape psychology, but it has be triggered by abusive female peers. If a man has a rape psychology, feminists can blame themselves for it.


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HA!

And may I say, best topic name.


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03 Feb 2014, 2:01 am

SoulcakeDuck wrote:
TheGoggles wrote:
crubs wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It is not an obvious common knowledge, people know little about the rapist "sexuality". And some radical feminists believe that most men have a required rooted mindset to be rapists, that's not true tho.


According to my studies, most men are expected to have a subconscious rape psychology, but it has be triggered by abusive female peers. If a man has a rape psychology, feminists can blame themselves for it.


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HA!

And may I say, best topic name.


:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:



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03 Feb 2014, 2:06 am

crubs wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It is not an obvious common knowledge, people know little about the rapist "sexuality". And some radical feminists believe that most men have a required rooted mindset to be rapists, that's not true tho.


According to my studies, most men are expected to have a subconscious rape psychology, but it has be triggered by abusive female peers. If a man has a rape psychology, feminists can blame themselves for it.


Don't forget your fedora and your portable wank bank while you keep telling people it's the raped person's fault.



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03 Feb 2014, 2:16 am

crubs wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It is not an obvious common knowledge, people know little about the rapist "sexuality". And some radical feminists believe that most men have a required rooted mindset to be rapists, that's not true tho.


According to my studies, most men are expected to have a subconscious rape psychology, but it has be triggered by abusive female peers. If a man has a rape psychology, feminists can blame themselves for it.

So it's the female's fault if she gets raped?

That is the biggest load of bullshit I have heard in my entire life.



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03 Feb 2014, 2:18 am

Frankly this thread is one example why aspies have a bad rep with the media.

I don't have urges to rape people and never did. Anyone who does is a psycho.



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03 Feb 2014, 3:20 am

ashbashbeard wrote:
crubs wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It is not an obvious common knowledge, people know little about the rapist "sexuality". And some radical feminists believe that most men have a required rooted mindset to be rapists, that's not true tho.


According to my studies, most men are expected to have a subconscious rape psychology, but it has be triggered by abusive female peers. If a man has a rape psychology, feminists can blame themselves for it.

So it's the female's fault if she gets raped?

That is the biggest load of bullshit I have heard in my entire life.


and the other part of his post is wrong too, studies showed that most men DON'T have a subconscious rape psychology.
And according to other studies, only a minority of rapists were abused as children.



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03 Feb 2014, 3:48 am

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Frankly this thread is one example why aspies have a bad rep with the media.

I don't have urges to rape people and never did. Anyone who does is a psycho.


Don't you find it odd that the women who replied him didn't find the whole thing disturbing tho? The OP has obviously admitted that he calculated the rape possibility, that's pretty disturbing. Crimes start with thoughts, they certainly didn't followed up Sodini case.



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03 Feb 2014, 9:06 am

ashbashbeard wrote:
Frankly this thread is one example why aspies have a bad rep with the media.

I don't have urges to rape people and never did. Anyone who does is a psycho.


Why should aspies get a bad reputation for that? Most aspies have never had such an urge, unlike the OP, and aren't likely to any more than anyone else in the general population either. This has got nothing to do with Asperger's.



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03 Feb 2014, 9:25 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ashbashbeard wrote:
crubs wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It is not an obvious common knowledge, people know little about the rapist "sexuality". And some radical feminists believe that most men have a required rooted mindset to be rapists, that's not true tho.


According to my studies, most men are expected to have a subconscious rape psychology, but it has be triggered by abusive female peers. If a man has a rape psychology, feminists can blame themselves for it.

So it's the female's fault if she gets raped?

That is the biggest load of bullshit I have heard in my entire life.


and the other part of his post is wrong too, studies showed that most men DON'T have a subconscious rape psychology.
And according to other studies, only a minority of rapists were abused as children.


Exactly.

It's absolutely disgusting to blame rape victims for their experience.


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