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Have you experienced similar? (only answer if you are male)
yes 13%  13%  [ 8 ]
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04 Feb 2014, 12:34 pm

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Frankly this thread is one example why aspies have a bad rep with the media.

I don't have urges to rape people and never did. Anyone who does is a psycho.


Don't you find it odd that the women who replied him didn't find the whole thing disturbing tho? The OP has obviously admitted that he calculated the rape possibility, that's pretty disturbing. Crimes start with thoughts, they certainly didn't followed up Sodini case.


This is what ashbashbeard means about the bad name. It's not normal.. and a lot of aspies do it.. make posts about creepy sh**. 8O


I think it was very brave to present this "creepy sh**". It is interesting and I bet he's not alone in having felt this way. And by opening up a discussion he and others get help with their views and perspectives on different topics like this.

As OP stated he did not have any more thoughts and rape-modes after he had experienced sex. So more possibilities open up for discussion and solutions to these kind of harming thoughts if they are put in to action.


And now ashbashbeard struts in on his super awesome robot horse blasting Always by Ensure from a retro boombox calling OP a psycho.

No my highly seated friend a psycho plans and acts on his desires, impulses and envisioned theorized outcomes.
Nordmann says: "After having had sex I have not experienced anything like this anymore.", and he also wrote that he knew and understood that these were dark thoughts and he had to snap out of it.

All very healthy outcomes to me, he finally got laid and never raped anyone.

What, you people going to charge him with thought crime? Just for having messed up thoughts.
Je, rest of us never thought of odd stuff, we f***ing saints,. . ..... . . .. . . yo.


I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.



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04 Feb 2014, 1:52 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
SoulcakeDuck wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
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ashbashbeard wrote:
Frankly this thread is one example why aspies have a bad rep with the media.

I don't have urges to rape people and never did. Anyone who does is a psycho.


Don't you find it odd that the women who replied him didn't find the whole thing disturbing tho? The OP has obviously admitted that he calculated the rape possibility, that's pretty disturbing. Crimes start with thoughts, they certainly didn't followed up Sodini case.


This is what ashbashbeard means about the bad name. It's not normal.. and a lot of aspies do it.. make posts about creepy sh**. 8O


I think it was very brave to present this "creepy sh**". It is interesting and I bet he's not alone in having felt this way. And by opening up a discussion he and others get help with their views and perspectives on different topics like this.

As OP stated he did not have any more thoughts and rape-modes after he had experienced sex. So more possibilities open up for discussion and solutions to these kind of harming thoughts if they are put in to action.


And now ashbashbeard struts in on his super awesome robot horse blasting Always by Ensure from a retro boombox calling OP a psycho.

No my highly seated friend a psycho plans and acts on his desires, impulses and envisioned theorized outcomes.
Nordmann says: "After having had sex I have not experienced anything like this anymore.", and he also wrote that he knew and understood that these were dark thoughts and he had to snap out of it.

All very healthy outcomes to me, he finally got laid and never raped anyone.

What, you people going to charge him with thought crime? Just for having messed up thoughts.
Je, rest of us never thought of odd stuff, we f***ing saints,. . ..... . . .. . . yo.


I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.


So by not bringing it to light and talking about it we should send people to "qualified" brain people because they know the precise course of action to take and underlying causes to rape-modes and other though issues.
What the'll do is to pump the dude full of medicine and note that he is a potential danger to women.

And do take note that this was a self-reflection on something that happened to him long ago as he says.
He says he overcame these extreme thoughts and haven't had any since he experienced sex.


Is he a "sicko" still? Should he go see a psychologist today for extreme thoughts from way back that he has not had since and understood that they are messed up.

These issues should not be concealed behind closed doors away from camera lenses. Where one person with a diploma judges if you are healthy or not.

Information like this and media will always find a way of getting their story out and causing impact in someway.
If every single Aspie who had thoughts like this went to a psychologist then I guess media would still find a big stack of reports that they could use displaying that a large amount of Aspie males are potential rapists for having had crazy thoughts and treated.

Nah I don't believe dodging media and these kind of threads would make things better. If people can't understand what is being discussed and just right of the bat label someone for having read a couple words they didn't like concerning something sensitive (especially if you are female, I get that this must be extra uncomfortable for you) then the norm of people following this crap told to them by media are not very bright.


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04 Feb 2014, 2:06 pm

Sexual frustration can be detrimental to the psyche, but it doesn't excuse violence. Just like having PTSD doesn't excuse domestic violence.



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04 Feb 2014, 3:12 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.

I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.


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04 Feb 2014, 5:40 pm

Maybe I am not that sexual after all.



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04 Feb 2014, 6:11 pm

Ann2011 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.

I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.


That isn't the point. The point is the high concentration of "creepiness" of aspies in society is brought on by threads like this.



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04 Feb 2014, 6:14 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
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hale_bopp wrote:
I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.

I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.


That isn't the point. The point is the high concentration of "creepiness" of aspies in society is brought on by threads like this.


I have seen many examples of creepiness on this site. This one doesn't seem remarkably so.


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04 Feb 2014, 7:09 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Ann2011 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.

I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.


That isn't the point. The point is the high concentration of "creepiness" of aspies in society is brought on by threads like this.


What is this I don't even...

People are very aware of being able to not stereotype. If you feel that you're going to be thought of as a rapist because one aspie posted that he's thought about raping someone in real situation, then perhaps you should check how you perceive others yourself, as you seem unclear as how to distinguish a person from a group, thinking that everyone else will do the same to you. What you should be upset about is stereotyping...

You have NO RIGHT to get upset at someone for talking about themselves because you feel that is misrepresents you. How self-centered are you??

I too find it more towards the brave side that the OP posted about this. I don't know why people are aghast, we KNOW rape happens, rapists exist. That's why I'm not like 'omg, horror!' Perhaps the OP's post is going to help some poor young guy who's feeling something similar to go find a prostitute instead now. Anyways, I'm not sure how having a discussion about such a topic is a bad thing. Unless you think people are going to feel like it's suddenly more acceptable to rape people or something.

Rape's wrong, it shouldn't happen, but people have violent and criminal thoughts and sometimes actions too. Not talking about it doesn't change that.


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04 Feb 2014, 8:14 pm

How do we know the OP even is on the spectrum?He could just post this as a cruel joke to make men here seem dangerous.


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04 Feb 2014, 8:20 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.


In my country we had a case with a supposed aspie (according to court psych experts) going into a home and raping a woman in front of her 3-5y daughter. And for years there have been loads of news about the notorious trusemannen\the panty man who harass young girls.

You really think this thread have any impact whatsoever compared to all the bad press in real medias planet over? On a now long disclosed Norwegian forum an aspie girl complained about the aspies in news stories where too ugly too unstylish and where losers, she wanted only attractive successful aspies to be featured in order to make asperger look better.

I have not gone to a psych since I got this diagnosis 10y ago, and I have no interest in wasting money on nothing, infact what I would have to pay for a shrink I can f**k a ok looking student for in eastern Europe. I started this thread out of curiosity and I am not into pretending I am any more sympathetic than I am (yes I am stupid). I don`t think this is just personal either, rape is a common thing, while assault rape is not that common most places, here like everywhere in the west quite a few boys rape sleep drunk girls at parties and nachspiels I don`t think that is usually a power thing but a way to get p**** easy there and then and without that much risk depending on situation, and I would guess most who have done it and where not too drunk themselves did a calculation before putting it in.

8 yes, a bit unclear about what they account as similar though
35 no
But yeah it`s just me halebopp



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04 Feb 2014, 8:41 pm

Well being of other humans is not best served by people having these kinds of attitudes and thinking that's acceptable. Thanks for pointing out how much you disrespect Eastern European students. I hope when your trial comes around that you find yourself facing a judge who was that student once.



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04 Feb 2014, 10:18 pm

Nordmann wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.


In my country we had a case with a supposed aspie (according to court psych experts) going into a home and raping a woman in front of her 3-5y daughter. And for years there have been loads of news about the notorious trusemannen\the panty man who harass young girls.

You really think this thread have any impact whatsoever compared to all the bad press in real medias planet over? On a now long disclosed Norwegian forum an aspie girl complained about the aspies in news stories where too ugly too unstylish and where losers, she wanted only attractive successful aspies to be featured in order to make asperger look better.

I have not gone to a psych since I got this diagnosis 10y ago, and I have no interest in wasting money on nothing, infact what I would have to pay for a shrink I can f**k a ok looking student for in eastern Europe. I started this thread out of curiosity and I am not into pretending I am any more sympathetic than I am (yes I am stupid). I don`t think this is just personal either, rape is a common thing, while assault rape is not that common most places, here like everywhere in the west quite a few boys rape sleep drunk girls at parties and nachspiels I don`t think that is usually a power thing but a way to get p**** easy there and then and without that much risk depending on situation, and I would guess most who have done it and where not too drunk themselves did a calculation before putting it in.

8 yes, a bit unclear about what they account as similar though
35 no
But yeah it`s just me halebopp


Not brave then, but stupid. Shame. Guess it is it's own form of bravery.


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05 Feb 2014, 5:03 am

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Well being of other humans is not best served by people having these kinds of attitudes and thinking that's acceptable. Thanks for pointing out how much you disrespect Eastern European students. I hope when your trial comes around that you find yourself facing a judge who was that student once.


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05 Feb 2014, 5:17 am

Nordmann wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.


In my country we had a case with a supposed aspie (according to court psych experts) going into a home and raping a woman in front of her 3-5y daughter. And for years there have been loads of news about the notorious trusemannen\the panty man who harass young girls.

You really think this thread have any impact whatsoever compared to all the bad press in real medias planet over? On a now long disclosed Norwegian forum an aspie girl complained about the aspies in news stories where too ugly too unstylish and where losers, she wanted only attractive successful aspies to be featured in order to make asperger look better.

I have not gone to a psych since I got this diagnosis 10y ago, and I have no interest in wasting money on nothing, infact what I would have to pay for a shrink I can f**k a ok looking student for in eastern Europe. I started this thread out of curiosity and I am not into pretending I am any more sympathetic than I am (yes I am stupid). I don`t think this is just personal either, rape is a common thing, while assault rape is not that common most places, here like everywhere in the west quite a few boys rape sleep drunk girls at parties and nachspiels I don`t think that is usually a power thing but a way to get p**** easy there and then and without that much risk depending on situation, and I would guess most who have done it and where not too drunk themselves did a calculation before putting it in.

8 yes, a bit unclear about what they account as similar though
35 no
But yeah it`s just me halebopp


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05 Feb 2014, 5:18 am

Ann2011 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Ann2011 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.

I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.


That isn't the point. The point is the high concentration of "creepiness" of aspies in society is brought on by threads like this.


I have seen many examples of creepiness on this site. This one doesn't seem remarkably so.


lol