Oh The F****!

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I hope you find a girl willing to simulate a relationship with you someday.

Just end the friendship/relationship/whatever it is between you two, right away. She sounds like a spoiled princess. She makes constant drama because she doesn't respect you; David DeAngelo, a PUA writer who I'm not exactly a fan of, explains that behavior very well. He says that women test men to see how dominant/alpha they are, and you failed your friend's tests. Women aren't dumn: they know men hate drama. She keeps making drama with you because she couldn't care less about losing you; that thing with the pizza place/diner was an act; it was a sh*t test to see if you'll stand up to her. And you didn't, sorry.

Your only solution right now is to cut your losses and get her out of your life, because once you fail a woman's test, there are no second chances, ever. Act swiftly and decisively: tell her to never contact you again, and block her number. Don't be hesitant to go to the police; I've heard many of stories of women trashing a guy's car in retaliation for breaking up with them, and she sounds like type of person who wouldn't think twice before doing that.

I used to have a female friend like that. When our friendship ended, I ended up requesting police protection, because I feared being a victim of a crime. She treated me very much like your lady friend is treating you: making drama over little things, yelling at me, accusing me of disrespecting her, and so on, and so on. At least I got mild satisfaction: when the police officer helping me called her and yelled at her to never contact me again, her shocked tone of voice was priceless. (He put her on speakerphone, per my request.)

I don't talk to her no more. And I already deleted/blocked her. I'd doubt she'd likely stalk and harass me at all. Like I said before she was quite the looker. She'll get another guy to play those stupid alpha male games in no time. I'm not going to try and decipher the games. Basically I was in a double-edge sword position. Because if I would've forced the pizza place on her that could've been a problem also. I'll take a tomboy over a princess any day. Looking back at it I think the date was probably already done before it began. Lol

But I'd seriously doubt I'll have to go through drastic measures like the police getting involved. The chick moved on. So did I.

Seriously guys, you are talking to the OP as if he lost something valuabe and wow.

Is any p**** that valuable to you? What about this thing she has called brain, the source of her crappy charachter?

Lol I never heard back from her we both moved on. A long time ago. Idk what women consider what an alpha male is. But I know that I'd kill for the ones I love and die protecting them. If that isn't alpha then I dont know what is. I guess the guy that knocks you up and leave is one right? Lol idk. But we can close the thread now. Im not hearing from her again. Probably might see her around but it won't be anything worth talking about.

I'm guessing with your response, she took it as you disrespecting her friend's situation. Probably not the smartest thing you could have said there. Sometimes, silence is the best, as us aspies know .

She took your response bad obviously, and carried it throughout the date. Watch your parents sometime, if they get in an argument, usually the man backs down a little bit and just goes with what the woman says. Men know there are certain things not to f**k with as far as women go. Just nodding at her while she was arguing would have been the best thing to do by far. She was looking to you for confirmation that she was right, and you totally made it worse by saying something.

It was stupid to carry that grudge but some women (I said some in case women are gonna pile on and say I said all of them) carry grudges over the stupidest s**t. You should have just given her some space when she rejected your arms around her. Women want to see a caring side to their man from what I've seen and being combative was a bad choice.

Move on to the next one. Like others said, she was testing you and you failed. She wasn't worth it anyways if that is how she is gonna play by.

also I agree with the majority the chick isn't mature enough to be date material, next time though just try not to talk about when someone talks bad about someone else.

The one thing I have learned about women in general is to prepare for the complete reverse of what you're expecting. More often than not, women are run by emotion more than logic, so they go with whatever feels right to them in that moment. If you really want the full details on this, I'd recommend watching Mark Gungor's marriage seminar. Here's the first part...

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sVogrnAO28E[/youtube]