downbutnotout wrote:
This just seems like an uncomfortable way to think about sex... same for "giving it up". Anything about being threatened, hurt, endangered, or taken from.
I hope to find someone who doesn't view sex as anything other than a melding of two bodies someday. I don't think I could let anyone else touch me.
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interesting avatar where is it from?
by anyoneelse, do you mean besides a bf/gf or anyone besides you?
I view it as connecting and love making. seems to me its the closest physical two people can be, joined. I tend to ee things romantically
CodeGrey wrote:
I am (mostly) NT seeing an Aspie man. It strikes me that the responses, on the first page at least, all dealt with physical vulnerability. My mind immediately went to emotional vulnerability. In this case, I would say women because in most cases we are more wired to connect.
My boyfriend can go weeks without seeing me, while I long to see him. It hurts and ultimately will break us up on the end
. He seems surprised when I tell him how long it's been since our last meeting! He says he misses me, but I'm not sure I believe him.
I assumed it was meaning to physical.
on a emotional level perhaps I have a more female brain. though the women i've been with don't tend to follow that whole women are wired to connect. sexy time with me then moved on. while I still have feelings for them. feels like I always will. I need to be careful, I don't think I have infinite love to give and I still love those I loved in the past. sex does seem to increase said feelings.
I am confused. my experience has been women prefer long periods of no contact, and that daily or weekly contact is seen as clingy.
AngelRho wrote:
If you don't think men are vulnerable during sex, I have but one word for you:
Dentata
there is actually a device women can put in their vagina's that when a guy puts his penis in it slides in but when trying to pull out the teeth/barbs dig into the penis attach and then comes out with it. it prevents him from delating and has to be removed with surgery.
even though it isn't legal in the us It still has me terrified. also seems that the rapist would beat the woman to death after this happening, I don't see how it would save lives, stop the rape yes.