darkphantomx1 wrote:
I think for a majority of guys with high-functioning autism, they won't be getting a girlfriend until they're in their 20s. The teenage years is a bad time for a lot of us in terms of dating. Some of us have poor hygiene and we may look nerdy or plain looking to girls. And we have a hard time flirting and showing interests in girls we like so any girl who is initially attracted to us will either think we're uninterested or she will quickly move on to another guy who will ask her out.
And no offense to anyone here but I don't see a lot of really attractive aspie guys and I know at least 50 dudes with autism. Some of the guys, it's not that they're that unattractive but they don't put any effort into their appearance at all so it makes them appear even more unattractive. Like me for instance, I'm definitely not Brad Pitt but at least I comb my hair, shave, shower, and brush my teeth everyday. You'd be surprised how better looking you can be if you take care of your appearance and if you work out and try to either gain or lose some weight. My problem is that i'm really short and slim with a weird voice and an older face on a younger looking body and unfortunately theres nothing you can do about that but if you're tall and slim with a normal voice, you already have an advantage over me looks wise, all you have to do is just put some effort into your appearance a little bit and you will have more opportunities to attract women.
Being tall and slim is the ideal body type in a man. If you're between 5 ft 10 to 6 ft 3, you're the ideal height for attractiveness.
what if guys don't experience having a girlfriend at all in their 20's? not until 30's or later? something must have went developmentally wrong with them