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29 Oct 2014, 2:46 am

I always wonder this and tend to come off as a loner these days after many failed relationships and attempts at seeking true love which does not seem to exist anymore, I wonder If I am better off just allowing my heart to harden and become cold and dissasociate anything love related or emotional connection all together with someone else? I have gained so much without someone in my life like getting back on my own again and getting a car and such maybe Im best off without anyone but on the other hand I feel alone.


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29 Oct 2014, 3:22 am

You are a lonely hero riding in the night, you will find your heroine some day.

Just keep working valiantly to improve and help yourself and your fellow knights until that day comes. Knights with titles, horses and manors can be appealing but a true heroine will love you for who you are as a person.



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30 Oct 2014, 12:44 am

Thanks I just might do that!


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30 Oct 2014, 1:36 am

Be Batman.



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30 Oct 2014, 1:58 am

be yourself, it's easier that way.



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30 Oct 2014, 4:44 am

Be the best version of yourself that you can be.



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30 Oct 2014, 4:58 am

No. You can't be someone you're not, you know you desire to find love, having a defeatist attitude is going to accomplish nothing.


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30 Oct 2014, 11:15 am

In my experience interest comes along when you're least interested in looking or even emotionally incapable of reciprocating.

Make female friends, female friends tend to have their own female friends, increasing your circle of potentially suitable partners, providing you with valuable feedback regarding both your own behaviour and the possibility of interest from those female friends. Lastly, your male and female friends have something in common, sexual frustration.

Also, get a car no matter what. 8)



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30 Oct 2014, 11:36 am

I've made 6 female friends in last 3 years.

And they ended up hating each other.



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30 Oct 2014, 11:50 am

auntblabby wrote:
be yourself, it's easier that way.


Nooooo, be Hugh Jackman. :lol:



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30 Oct 2014, 1:26 pm

CynicalWaffle wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
be yourself, it's easier that way.


Nooooo, be Hugh Jackman. :lol:

he's having health issues recently, maybe I should be Keanu reeves instead, he seems to be healthy.



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30 Oct 2014, 1:47 pm

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30 Oct 2014, 1:56 pm

:o



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31 Oct 2014, 8:28 am

auntblabby wrote:
CynicalWaffle wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
be yourself, it's easier that way.


Nooooo, be Hugh Jackman. :lol:

he's having health issues recently, maybe I should be Keanu reeves instead, he seems to be healthy.


Hee hee, I like your style, auntblabby! :P

Keanu doesn't age, either. Not that Hugh Jackman does either, but still.



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31 Oct 2014, 3:16 pm

^^^
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31 Oct 2014, 3:50 pm

Getting chicks should be a part of you. How does having a chick stop you from getting a car? By loner, do you mean social phobia? Cuz all you have to do is talk to a lot of chicks till you get one. I'm a "loner" which means I like being alone, but Im also around a lot of people almost all day..