Being Ignored
I have an online friend. We talk on Kik every day unless one of us is asleep. Her time zone is fourteen hours behind mine.
I really like her. I'm quoiromantic I think, if not then completely aromantic (and asexual). The thing is, hours ago when she was meant to be sleeping she was drinking and I suppose she was upset but she wouldn't really talk to me about it and I tried talking to her and it wasn't working. I could have talked to her about the movie I was watching but she said she'd seen it before and well. She said how she couldn't find anyone to care about her and kept talking about being alone. I decided I can't tell her that I like her even if all I can manage is a queerplatonic thing because she keeps going on about guys and I don't want to ruin anything. I like talking with her.
But. I messaged her a few times when she was asleep and I know now that she's read them but she hasn't replied and I think she's upset somehow, I don't know what I did and I don't know if she'll talk to me anymore. I guess I should just go to sleep and see if she would message me later. I mean, I've messaged her too many times (like four) now and I know she read them (Kik says when people do) so I know that she doesn't want to talk to me. Maybe she went back to sleep? I don't know. She has insomnia and always messages when she wakes up so this is new. Could she just be upset? I'm not very good at helping people when they're upset so I might not have been very helpful.
I hope she talks to me but I don't want to message again and be annoying. So should I just see if she messages sometime later and if she doesn't then I guess she doesn't want to talk to me anymore? Or should I wait and message her later?
I'm just worried because she's the only person I really talk to and I don't want to go back to not really connecting with the other acquaintances I have, though I see her as a friend and my "other friends" as acquaintances because we don't talk enough or about anything really.
Just give it some time...
I'm sure if she is upset at all it has nothing to do with your messages. You just wanted to talk and messaged a few times. No big deal.
She has seen them but maybe she's just got other things on her mind right now.
Just wait until she messages you back now...
And if it takes a bit it doesn't mean she doesn't want to talk anymore. It could mean any number of completely different things...