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01 Dec 2015, 3:11 pm

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Crush: I don't remember. 14 maybe? Was denying the legitimacy of a relationship or sex at the time.
Hold hands: Never
Kiss: 22, with a complete stranger. It took some courage and was awkward :x
Date: Never
Sex: Never
Relationship: Never

First time to properly show interest: Never :skull:
First time to ask someone out: Never :oops:



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02 Dec 2015, 2:36 am

First kiss:19
First sex: 19
First relationship: 22



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02 Dec 2015, 2:51 am

First "crush", late 1970, age 8
First "intimate" kiss (and "naughty" play), 1973, age around 10-11
First real date 1979, still 16 at time
First intercourse 1982, still 19 at time
Met my spouse 1985, still 22 at time
"Shacked up" at age 23, married much later.


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02 Dec 2015, 3:43 am

A whole lot of nada on my part, besides having a what I'd term a real crush at age 16/17. I did a sparse amount of teenage dating, but that counts for nothing in my book.



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02 Dec 2015, 8:58 am

This is really depressing for me;

First kiss: 21
First date: 25
First girlfriend: 27
Second base: 27
Sex: pending

Did I lose yet?


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02 Dec 2015, 9:02 am

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I saw an escort (ok, fine, "hooker"!) when I was a virgin at 22. Best decision I ever made. Because about a month later, someone I asked me: "Are you a virgin?" And I told them: "No!" And I was telling the truth.
The only reason I never did that is because I was afraid the hooker would figure out she was my first.
Also worried she might question why I didn't come and see her about ten years sooner.


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02 Dec 2015, 1:08 pm

first time to hold hands: 16
first time to kiss: 16
first time, intercourse: 18
first real boyfriend: 19
I'm 30. Divorced. Not single.


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02 Dec 2015, 3:28 pm

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Society says there is something inherently wrong with being a 30-year-old virgin (or never having been in a serious relationship, or unmarried, or childless for that matter).
It's all my fault. I shouldn't have turned down that girl when I was 14, I should've been nicer to that other girl when I was 15, I should've asked that other girl out when I was 20. Those girls were into me and it's my fault for failing to return their interest.


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02 Dec 2015, 7:37 pm

First kiss: 19
First date: Pending
First girlfriend: Pending
Second base: Pending
Sex: pending

I am nearly 25 so yea it hard to be a guy with multiple disabilities of finding the right person.



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02 Dec 2015, 7:55 pm

First Kiss: 11
First Crush: 16
First Date: 25
First GF: 35
First Intercorse: 35



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02 Dec 2015, 8:02 pm

First crush: 12
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02 Dec 2015, 11:47 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
I saw an escort (ok, fine, "hooker"!) when I was a virgin at 22. Best decision I ever made. Because about a month later, someone I asked me: "Are you a virgin?" And I told them: "No!" And I was telling the truth.
The only reason I never did that is because I was afraid the hooker would figure out she was my first.
Also worried she might question why I didn't come and see her about ten years sooner.

I think my escort figured out I was a virgin, solely from the way I was acting upon arriving at her hotel room. Even though my previous sexual experiences (or lack thereof) were never mentioned, neither by me nor by her. She actually gave me a nice pep talk after we were done having sex, all without referencing my virginity.
My fear was that my escort would refuse to have sex with a virgin, and instead sit there fully clothed, and just talk to me and maybe cuddle (like an actual escort). I look back and laugh at how silly and unfounded my fear was.



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03 Dec 2015, 12:44 am

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04 Dec 2015, 1:26 am

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I think my escort figured out I was a virgin, solely from the way I was acting upon arriving at her hotel room. Even though my previous sexual experiences (or lack thereof) were never mentioned, neither by me nor by her. She actually gave me a nice pep talk after we were done having sex, all without referencing my virginity.
My fear was that my escort would refuse to have sex with a virgin, and instead sit there fully clothed, and just talk to me and maybe cuddle (like an actual escort). I look back and laugh at how silly and unfounded my fear was.


mine was calling me "shy" within the first minute, though the honestly refused to believe i was a virgin, or at least that had no girlfriend at the time. my peacefulness really didn't mesh with her constant "cheers!"ing.

(she also tried biting which i hated :shaking: )

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This is really depressing for me;

First kiss: 21
First date: 25
First girlfriend: 27
Second base: 27
Sex: pending

Did I lose yet?


nope.


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05 Dec 2015, 12:17 pm

I fked 2 girls at the same time at 16 on a cruise ship. I went back to the room they were staying. I was nervous as hell lol. We also drank some alcohol and I smoked weed for the first time. That's my biggest secret.



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05 Dec 2015, 1:43 pm

First serious talk with a girl: 25
First date: 27
First held hand: 27
First kiss: 27
First sex: 30

I seriously considered visiting a prostitute when I was 25. I shied away because of possible legal repercussions and because I was afraid the prostitute would say no. Yes, my self esteem was 0, because no girl of woman had ever said yes to me.
I have regretted that I didn't go, because later sex was difficult for me. My GF expected me to know how to do it, even though I had told her I was a virgin. Having seen porn is not the same as knowing how to have sex.