Women often show major signs of interest then flake out?

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There is a woman that really likes me a lot. She hits on me all the time. I gave her my email and she was so happy. She always smiles and emailed me saying she was so happy to meet me and would love to meet up sometime. She even told me that my voice is so sexy last week. I emailed her recently about going on a date with me and suddenly she is saying maybe, but has to think about it wtf? I really don't understand women...

Is she the same one that you've put your arm around her while thinking that she likes you?

If she finds out your autistic, she will flake out faster.

I wonder if men thinks all women are the same, fake & stuff.

Lots probably do. But there's likely also lots who don't. Mean there's lots of women who'll sex on first meeting. And lots of women in between the two extremes. Also depends on the men. Aspie men get women who are fake and stuff towards them. I have a bad opinion of women based on how they treat me, sure "real" men have different opinions based off how women love them so much.

People are entitled to change their minds.
Guys who are physically attractive but socially awkward may attract lots of initial interest that quickly fades.

Neo.

I think you were like "Wanna go out on a date with me?" a question to which the girl who wanna play hard to get may respond with "maybe"(it could be yes or no, according to the girls' opinions in that other forum).

What to do instead:
If you know what are her interests, search for a nearby event that matches one of her interests.

Tell her instead during the conversation something like "Btw, I am going to this event X on sunday, I know you like this stuff too, let's go together".

If she says no, then you can be like "oh well, I am going either way, tell me if you change your mind- I am sure It will be fun" . ---> This is a sous-entendu that it translates to :"I don't need you to have fun in my life, the door is open for you to join but I am not begging you.".