Does this mean I am not straight?

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Onyxaxe
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25 Dec 2017, 10:21 pm

I'm probably going to catch hell for this, but there's the possibility that you just don't find vaginas attractive. I don't find sexual organs of either gender super "attractive" but I can get aroused by either. I just came out as bi. Realistically I'm more interested in faces. Beautiful faces. The rest, it all works for me honestly as long as it serves its purpose lol.

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26 Dec 2017, 2:47 am

I’m starting to wonder whether this guy is serious or not.

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26 Dec 2017, 6:27 pm

It's common among men, you see men talk about sexy boobs, sexy abs, sexy legs, sexy butts....but you never hear them talking about vaginas , not even among men without any female presence - I don't ever recall a man praising a vagina of some woman., it's less visually arousing than all the other mentioned parts.

I bet that a healthy erected penis to women is actually more visually arousing than a vagina to men; penises to women are more to be compared to boobs to men.
http://healthland.time.com/2013/04/09/s ... enis-size/

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26 Dec 2017, 6:42 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Yes, from the men I’ve spoken to, none find vaginas visually appealing, and I don’t blame them.

Most women from what I’ve heard don’t find penises visually appealing either, unless they’re horny. It’s not very likely to look at a strangers penis and become horny. Most guys like getting unsolicited boob pics, and most women hate getting unsolicited dick pics

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26 Dec 2017, 6:42 pm

I like the way they look :heart:

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26 Dec 2017, 6:45 pm

Jamesy wrote:

I find curves and the females buttocks turns me on and I guess boobs are okay but I find vaginas unappealing.

Does that make me gay that I don't like vaginas?

'Straight' is a poorly defined term. Is a heterosexual man who's into pegging or femdom straight?

Personally, there are some pretty vaginas, and plenty of not so pretty ones.

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26 Dec 2017, 7:18 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Close up vagina pics don’t do anything to men.

If most men find vaginas visually arousing while they’re horny you would hear them talk more about them; but they don’t. There’s a reason why men love bj from a naked woman so much (all parts the men most like are seen, including lips) , even maybe more than penetration.

On the other hand, I can confirm that the girls I ve been with find penises visually appealing.

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26 Dec 2017, 7:28 pm

Sure they do...there's lots of naked vulvae (of which the vagina is a part) in pornography.

Many men, like myself, are enticed by the picture of an inviting vagina.

I like hairy ones myself---but many men like them shaved. I don't really like them shaved because then they look sort of like a prepubescent girl's vulva.

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26 Dec 2017, 7:33 pm

Jamesy wrote:

I find curves and the females buttocks turns me on and I guess boobs are okay but I find vaginas unappealing.

Does that make me gay that I don't like vaginas?

There are sexual interactions that don't involve direct contact with the other's genitals.

Other than this, I have a similar confusion. I love boobs, I like buttocks, but a vagina, especially when shaved (it looks like that of a little girl or a mannequin), just doesn't give me anything.
I like everything about the male body though.

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26 Dec 2017, 7:36 pm

Not liking a vagina does not make a man gay.

I happen to like them----but other "straight" men don't.

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26 Dec 2017, 7:54 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I like hairy ones myself---but many men like them shaved. I don't really like them shaved because then they look sort of like a prepubescent girl's vulva.

Even without hair adults genitals don't look the same as kids. Your battlestation undergoes changes as it becomes fully armed and operational.

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26 Dec 2017, 8:09 pm

I like big butts and I cannot lie.

I'm as straight as can be however, so I think you are probably fine.

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28 Dec 2017, 4:57 pm

Everyone is a little bit gay. Don’t believe me? Consider this:

When you watch porn, do you like it when the guy has a teeny weeny penis? Be honest, the answer is important.

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28 Dec 2017, 5:10 pm

I'm a woman. I'm hetero and enjoy sex...but penises just look silly to me. Always have. They feel great, but it's good that I don't have to look at them during sex - pointing and laughing does very little for a man's enjoyment of the process.

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28 Dec 2017, 5:12 pm

AngelRho wrote:

Everyone is a little bit gay. Don’t believe me? Consider this:

When you watch porn, do you like it when the guy has a teeny weeny penis? Be honest, the answer is important.

I only watch lesbian porn.

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28 Dec 2017, 10:43 pm

funeralxempire wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

I like hairy ones myself---but many men like them shaved. I don't really like them shaved because then they look sort of like a prepubescent girl's vulva.

Even without hair adults genitals don't look the same as kids. Your battlestation undergoes changes as it becomes fully armed and operational.

+1.

I guess it's a good thing you guys haven't been staring at little girls crotches enough not to know that lol

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