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13 Mar 2017, 4:54 am

Closet Genious wrote:
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^ Eating fat doesn't make you fat.

Eating carbs make you fat, most especially sugar.

It's not as though the fat in your food goes directly to your waistline undigested.


Eating fat doesn't make you fat, but eating carbs doesn't make you fat either.
Eating more calories than you burn makes you fat.

Low carb diets have no metabolic advantage:
http://ajcn.nutrition.org/content/83/5/1055.long

Remember, it is distinctively the higher protein that is beneficial for fat loss.


I see your point but I think the term "empty calories" still applies to most high carb food.


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13 Mar 2017, 6:01 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
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^ Eating fat doesn't make you fat.

Eating carbs make you fat, most especially sugar.

It's not as though the fat in your food goes directly to your waistline undigested.


Eating fat doesn't make you fat, but eating carbs doesn't make you fat either.
Eating more calories than you burn makes you fat.

Low carb diets have no metabolic advantage:
http://ajcn.nutrition.org/content/83/5/1055.long

Remember, it is distinctively the higher protein that is beneficial for fat loss.


I see your point but I think the term "empty calories" still applies to most high carb food.


I agree with that. The problem with sugar is not the sugar in itself, but what you are replacing it with. Sugary foods usually don't have alot of protein, fiber or vitamins, and are not very filling. They have done studies matching calories and protein, one group got below 10 grams of sugar per day, the other got 100 grams sugar per day. The results for both groups were pretty much identical. However, for a person who does not track their food intake, eating more sugar will most likely result in eating more calories overall, and also less protein and fiber.



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13 Mar 2017, 2:51 pm

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There is absolutely zero scientific evidence that dairy is bad for you or causes fat gain, actually dairy has been found to preserve muscle and bone mass really well during energy deficit. Soy has been linked to low testosterone in men, and should mostly be avoided if male. White bread being bad is complete nonsense, it is pretty much pure glucose. If you replaced butter with margerine you did not do youself any favor. Margerine is hydrogenated fat(trans fat), pretty much the only kind of fat that is actually bad for you, while butter is a very healthy fat with omega 3's. If you didn't get any protein during dieting you most likely lost just as much muscle and bone mass proportionate to fat.


Plus butter tastes better anyways.


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13 Mar 2017, 8:27 pm

as an aspie,i prefer women,and girls that are chubby.



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14 Mar 2017, 1:31 am

Guy 1:I prefer women who are chubby --> what they say about him: "he likes real women", "kuddos to him!", "he's a good and deep guy", "He knows what he wants"
Guy 2: I prefer women who are slim ---> "He's shallow", "He wants to make us starved", "Sexist", "He likes skeleton-like models", "He's a porn addict".

"lol"



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14 Mar 2017, 5:50 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Guy 1:I prefer women who are chubby --> what they say about him: "he likes real women", "kuddos to him!", "he's a good and deep guy", "He knows what he wants"
Guy 2: I prefer women who are slim ---> "He's shallow", "He wants to make us starved", "Sexist", "He likes skeleton-like models", "He's a porn addict".

"lol"


Sorry but that's BS. I know guys who have been teased and embarassed for liking bigger girls



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14 Mar 2017, 7:03 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Guy 1:I prefer women who are chubby --> what they say about him: "he likes real women", "kuddos to him!", "he's a good and deep guy", "He knows what he wants"
Guy 2: I prefer women who are slim ---> "He's shallow", "He wants to make us starved", "Sexist", "He likes skeleton-like models", "He's a porn addict".

"lol"
Well I see this as a positive for women. This means they slim women get less competition. Making it easier for you to get a boyfriend when you have a healthy weight. And everyone can lose some weight( unless you have some metabolism disorder etc.)



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14 Mar 2017, 8:28 am

Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Guy 1:I prefer women who are chubby --> what they say about him: "he likes real women", "kuddos to him!", "he's a good and deep guy", "He knows what he wants"
Guy 2: I prefer women who are slim ---> "He's shallow", "He wants to make us starved", "Sexist", "He likes skeleton-like models", "He's a porn addict".

"lol"


Sorry but that's BS. I know guys who have been teased and embarassed for liking bigger girls


Well, it's not me who invented the "real women have curves" campaign. These campaigns created an ambiance of slim-shaming the slim women and shaming the guys who prefer slim women too.

https://www.theodysseyonline.com/am-real-woman

It became totally socially acceptable to shame skinny to a level that fat-shaming never reached before https://www.phasesofrobyn.com/wp-conten ... haming.jpg
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/73 ... 4f2ca1.jpg



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15 Mar 2017, 10:51 am

Alliekit wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
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So. No single healthy weight women in my real world (they are all taken) and online dating makes me feel like worthless ugly s**t.
Yeah. Even the obese ones think they're too good for me.

How did the market become so heavily tipped in their favour that I need a degree while they don't need to maintain a healthy weight?


They have other things to offer

Oh God, I missed this one! Can't stop laughing! :lmao:



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15 Mar 2017, 11:06 am

Peacesells wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Sometime World wrote:
So. No single healthy weight women in my real world (they are all taken) and online dating makes me feel like worthless ugly s**t.
Yeah. Even the obese ones think they're too good for me.

How did the market become so heavily tipped in their favour that I need a degree while they don't need to maintain a healthy weight?


They have other things to offer

Oh God, I missed this one! Can't stop laughing! :lmao:


Apparently, an awesome f*ckboob requires an awesome degree in return.



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15 Mar 2017, 11:29 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Sometime World wrote:
So. No single healthy weight women in my real world (they are all taken) and online dating makes me feel like worthless ugly s**t.
Yeah. Even the obese ones think they're too good for me.

How did the market become so heavily tipped in their favour that I need a degree while they don't need to maintain a healthy weight?


They have other things to offer

Oh God, I missed this one! Can't stop laughing! :lmao:


Apparently, an awesome f*ckboob requires an awesome degree in return.

Do they say that about fat girls there? Here they say they do well something else.



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15 Mar 2017, 11:37 am

Peacesells wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Sometime World wrote:
So. No single healthy weight women in my real world (they are all taken) and online dating makes me feel like worthless ugly s**t.
Yeah. Even the obese ones think they're too good for me.

How did the market become so heavily tipped in their favour that I need a degree while they don't need to maintain a healthy weight?


They have other things to offer

Oh God, I missed this one! Can't stop laughing! :lmao:


Why? Can you explain?



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15 Mar 2017, 11:55 am

Alliekit wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Sometime World wrote:
So. No single healthy weight women in my real world (they are all taken) and online dating makes me feel like worthless ugly s**t.
Yeah. Even the obese ones think they're too good for me.

How did the market become so heavily tipped in their favour that I need a degree while they don't need to maintain a healthy weight?


They have other things to offer

Oh God, I missed this one! Can't stop laughing! :lmao:


Why? Can you explain?

Because you assume that it's because of some quality they have. And why would the guys with the degree have no qualities?



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15 Mar 2017, 11:59 am

Peacesells wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Sometime World wrote:
So. No single healthy weight women in my real world (they are all taken) and online dating makes me feel like worthless ugly s**t.
Yeah. Even the obese ones think they're too good for me.

How did the market become so heavily tipped in their favour that I need a degree while they don't need to maintain a healthy weight?


They have other things to offer

Oh God, I missed this one! Can't stop laughing! :lmao:


Why? Can you explain?

Because you assume that it's because of some quality they have. And why would the guys with the degree have no qualities?


I never said that you just assumed. He said why should he have a degree, how can a fat girl want more. Well if she has more to offer than she would want more.

If she has a degree, a good job or a great personality then of course she is going to want more :roll:



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15 Mar 2017, 12:01 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Sometime World wrote:
So. No single healthy weight women in my real world (they are all taken) and online dating makes me feel like worthless ugly s**t.
Yeah. Even the obese ones think they're too good for me.

How did the market become so heavily tipped in their favour that I need a degree while they don't need to maintain a healthy weight?


They have other things to offer

Oh God, I missed this one! Can't stop laughing! :lmao:


Apparently, an awesome f*ckboob requires an awesome degree in return.


Wow falling into the old stereotype that men only think with their cock much :lol:

I meant she could have an awesome degree :roll: It's funny that that didn't even cross your mind you immediately assume sex



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15 Mar 2017, 12:08 pm

I may be thinking dirty of a woman, but deep down inside I prefer women who are sensible and kind. Mainly because I want her to be my friend, and to also be someone who I can wrap my arm around and talk to all the time. Someone who could call me sweet nicknames, and also someone who doesn't look at me like I'm her younger brother, but rather her badass boyfriend. More importantly she would be someone I can romantically lean on, and spend money on without the fear of being a constant drain to her.

That type of girl does exist, and some day I will find her. I prefer a woman who is sensible and kind more so than a woman who would offer sex upfront. Besides, from what I heard, one night stands lead to shotgun weddings that are traumatic, and I don't want one.