Too attached?

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My girl freind is going to be into South Carolina, 200 miles away, till next thursday. Wednesday is our anneversery. I can't sleep, I can barely eat, i don't know what to do, can you help me?

No offence but I'm kinda laughing at you.

It's probably because I don't understand.

just postpone the anniversery

You'll see her in less than a week. Buck up.

The time will pass. Don't worry about it, it is only less than a week.

I'm lauging, and I'm really sorry, honestly. Just be happy with the fact that you have a girlfriend, especially one that seems to understand you. I'd sell my...computer (no! not that desparate)... shoes (no! shoes my size are expensive)...I know, I'd sell all my pants for a girlfriend who understands me (or not, either way I'm happy)!

1)... The Question!

Too Attached?

2)... The Answer!

If you have to ask, then it is YES!

I like it when my wife goes away (not because I don't like her but because I can enjoy time on my own while knowing when she will be back).

I'm laughing at Hale_bopp, almost spit out my coffee when I read that because I didn't expect it.
Is that like "i'm kind of making fun of you and I don't know why"?
She just sounds more and more like my sister Linds everyday. Of course, like my sister, I know better than to think she meant any harm by that statement. It was just pure BLUNTness.

Seing as how I give such great advice that I can't even come close to following myself....

Don't form all these concrete occasions, anniversaries and trinkets in relationships. When you start feeling the need to toss up a ring, car, whatever on some calendar date or you are concentrating on what you think you are forgetting then things can slip fast. I think these sort of occasions are OK if it is like a one year thing but these people who get off on monthly/weekly anniversaries are taking it too far. Relax, you aren't married, have fun. It sounds like you have a good thing going that many of us aren't as lucky to have. She'll be back.

I'm not laughing, I know I would be upset about that too.
I do place some store by anniversaries and special occassions, I plan to celebrate certain things at certain times and disruption of that counts as disruption of my plans and routine as much as if I have to take a different route to work or go to bed at a different time, if that makes any sense. If you are anything like me then celebrating on a different day when she returns is not a solution - the exact day will have come and gone and a substitute will not do, that day will never be repeated. I hope I am not making you more sad by saying that.

It would be a nice idea to telephone or e-mail a special message to her to mark the occassion, if it means a lot to both of you.

Having someone special is worth celebrating.

thank ou feather, i don't understand why people scoff at me missing the person I'm engaged to. I just dont understand.

I'm quite sure no one means to mock you, at least not anymore than in jest. I don't mean to be mean (hehe, I don't know why I find that funny), but it is somewhat humorous that you're upset about a week away from your girlfriend, a week really isn't that long, it'll be over before you know it.