RetroGamer87 wrote:
Then she didn't respond to my texts. It was like she was trying to ghost me. Eventually she said she just didn't feel a connection with me. What does that mean?
One of the recurring problems in my life is that girls don't usually tell me why. Like, what I did wrong, what I could have done better. I feel like I should create a post date feedback form.
Now I'm left to wonder. Was it because I don't like the same foods as her? Was it because she's from an upper middle class family and I'm not? Was I being too cynical? Was it because I didn't break the touch barrister?
I don't know what I did wrong. I've learned nothing. Whatever mistake I made, I may make it again on my next date.
That happened to me more times than I can count. All I can suggest is that thinking about it is a fruitless endeavor. There might be any # of reasons: you did something an ex did and it triggered a bad memory, their sibling or friends knows you and doesn't like you, the weather was crappy, you tied your shoelaces wrong, etc, etc. In other words it doesn't matter. If it makes you feel any better most of the women who did that to be are still single to this day. In other words, in most cases there is a good reason they are not in a relationship.
Besides, when I hear the word 'slow', that is usually code for someone who is emotionally unavailable. There is practically nothing you can do to win someone over who is like that and it's not worth it anyway.