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Expressing those exact feelings is why we're all here.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

Yep, Imhere...the guy is a definite nutjob.

Who would get upset, unless one is crazy, about somebody saying "good morning?"

Someone who doesn't understand how he feels and doesn't understand the difference between friendship and romance and doesn't understand what he wanted to be or what he wanted me to be would get upset. Do you see it? He kinda pulled closer but when I responded in kind he pushed me away because he didn't know what to do.

That's normal.

Apprehension isn't a big deal & we already knew that here.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

That IS NOT normal, and it HURT. Badly.

I'm sorry to misinterpret but again we're here to reinterpret & find peace.

Lots of painful things happen to me & I still love the same people.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

I still think the guy has MAJOR problems.

To not like "good morning" is beyond ridiculous.

Not everyone's a morning person. Some people get stressed on waking up. I certainly don't get happy responses from anybody when I'm up early.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

I asked the woman I love to go on a morning hike recently. I was told where to shove my morning hikes. I love her anyway.

Not a big deal, really.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

This had nothing to do with being a morning person. There's obviously more to that hike story, and it really doesn't have anything to do with this. And yes it is a big deal. We never know what to say or do, if an aspie will take it as an act of kindness or an assault on their inner person for trying to get too close.

Sure, that was during a music festival whence everyone but me was tired from partying.

I don't take life too seriously because that would just be retaining negativity. We all have to live around all kinds of tension so I make a point of celebrating with cherished people no matter what everyone else thinks.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

I hope the guy apologizes. He was in the wrong.

I hope everyone realizes apologies from aspies are valid, equally.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

imhere please forgive me if you have said this before, but do you know his sexual orientation? Is it possible he is not straight or maybe even asexual?