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How’d you feel if I said aspie women are terrible I’d never date one. Normal nt women are far better.

She’s basing her preference off a single aspie man experience she could find a nt guy who’s exactly the same way.

There’s a lot of videos on YouTube by black men upset that black women won’t date them.

I dont know why she felt the need to say it. If I wouldn’t date aspie women I certainly wouldn’t mention it here. And I’ve had bad experience with an aspie woman but I don’t think all are like her
I find her post upsetting.
Doesn’t seem any different then a whit rich person who get mugged by a black man and thus dislikes black men cause he sees them all as thugs.

So ya don't like Gary Larson? Well Gary Larson is offended by you!

The more I read on this the more I am understanding.
We all have our sensitive spots and triggers.
I do like a proverb.

People say that all the time. I don’t feel anything. It’s their preference and potentially their loss or gain, hence their problem.

People don’t have to find me attractive, even if they’re similar to me. I accept that. It seems a lot of people here can’t.

I can see how it might seem worse for aspie guys noone wants anyway, but looking at some of the toxic stuff men here spew, I’m not surprised they’re single. You don’t have to speak your true feelings in real life for people to pick up a vibe of concealed misogyny and entitlement. (I’m not referring to you specifically).

Church guy here. When a girl suddenly starts sitting next to me on Sunday's sermon and in bible study I sort of get the hint that she is at least interested in seeing who I am as a person and if we fit personality wise. Just sit next to him during these times or if you have a fellowship afterwords with food. I mean even getting up during a fellowship when he is at the food table and asking him what he likes is a start. Seriously girl, I know it's hard, I'm on the spectrum too and can't even make eye contact with people, but my girlfriend is a church girl. We actually go to church together, and it's the best relationship I've had in my life. Just don't rush into things if he comes on too strong and does like you. Always keep a sound mind and take things slow. Best of luck, I hope you two manage to talk at church sometime. Also, depending on your age, you can also talk to your pastor about it. If you are in your 20+ then often times a pastor can invite you two to his house for dinner or to a gathering to see if you two click. Most are good at breaking the ice between two people who are adults and ready for a relationship that can enter towards marriage. Good luck.