kraftiekortie wrote:
It's very stressful for a marriage if somebody is laid off from a job. It's stressful on the person laid off. This leads to stress all around.
Being laid off with no other source of income is very stressful, indeed.
My solution: Don't get married
And don't have kids.
My financial situation remains my problem and not his/hers. Unless of course my partner has a problem with me being poor for their own reasons, in which case, they are free to find someone else (as Luhluhluh says).
I’m very anti marriage. I think it’s an outdated system that people refuse to let go of cause it’s emotionally tied to family stability. But if you remove the emotions and “romance” from it all it is is a tax agreement. The agreement states that we are “one” and act as one unit in the eyes of a government. Perfect for a socaity where it was perceived that one gender as a whole couldn’t financially support themselves. Completely useless and unnecessary in this day and age.