The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
HistoryGal wrote:
Need to check themselves....are they pure like St Joseph her most chaste spouse?
Seriously men seem to be able to have a collection of partners while the women are having to be limited.
Why not both genders think a little before hitting the sheets? Relationships aren't all about sex.
Eh - best to avoid those types. They're usually poorly socialized and have outdated ideas. Not worth anyone's time.
Not *anyone* ’s worth? Isn’t that extreme.
Why are you think you speaking for all women?
I was rejected once because I am not virgin; so there’s certainly Mary-like women there who want a Joseph.
In fact, plenty of women where I love prefer virgin guys; or at least guys who never had premarital sex.
I see we're going to discuss semantics here. Okay, my comment was in direct response to the original poster, who suggested that men are being unrealistic at wanting a virginal woman while he plays the field. Her post suggests she does not agree with this view. Therefore, my comment is that she should avoid those types, because they are not worth her time, and this also goes for any woman who is also aware that she is a sexual being and does not have any hang-ups about this very normal aspect of human behavior.
This is also another important reason why people who are dating be very clear with each other with what they want and expect, and pair up with someone who holds similar values. Anything otherwise is a waste of their time.
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