hurtloam wrote:
Fnord wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
... They seem to think that I'm not interested and not worth pursuing. ...
This was always my assumption, back when I was single, especially after some of my co-workers were reprimanded for harassment. I guess they assumed that the lack of interest shown my the women they were interested in was just some form of playing hard to get. What it got them instead was a whole lot of trouble.
That's very logical, but I feel like I'm being obvious. But apparently, according to my sister, I'm not. But I don't know how to be more obvious without making a fool of myself. I did something obvious the other day and it was rebuffed. I can't win.
Okay ... I'm gonna give you a suggestion, and I hope that no one hates me for it, but here goes...
Can you fake tears? I mean, can you make your eyes water at will? Can you at least put on a bit of an act with some incoherent sobbing and a squeaky voice while you try to apologize for "acting like a fool the other day"? Even (some of) us cold-hearted Aspie guys will fall for it -- the old "Water Works" trick is effective (almost) every time. No one likes to see a crying or weeping woman. It's really touching because she can appear to be so weak and defenseless. There’s only one way to stop a woman from crying: he gives her what she wants. In your case, it's attention.
Yeah ... prime cut manipulation ... nobody likes it, yet everybody does it.
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