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19 Aug 2018, 3:28 pm

This happened like a dozen of times in my lifetime [with different persons]: Woman who never or barely showed any interest in me, never initiated any contact with me... suddenly calls me only when she's heavily drunk just to talk silly stuff with me.
So there was this young woman today who's just acquaintance (a very good looking one, i asked her out like ages ago but declined claiming she doesn't want any relation, and never again) who video called me out of the blue, and she sounded in a very bad shape, and kept talking me mundane stuff for more than an hour about what she did this evening in the disco and how much she drank with friends (4 bottles, she claims); and she was like 'sooo still seeing this girlfriend of yours?' and laughing silly. She was wearing very skimpy and her cleavage was almost rubbing the camera.

Sounds like trouble eh? So I withdrew and didn't even attempt to flirt her or anything.

Is that a 'thing' that happens often, any similar experiences?



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19 Aug 2018, 3:33 pm

They want that short ugly Leb to pound them. Hop to it, bro.



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19 Aug 2018, 3:36 pm

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19 Aug 2018, 3:37 pm

Problem?

You get encouragement. They want it. Now hop to it before I get there first. ;-)



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19 Aug 2018, 3:57 pm

No.



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19 Aug 2018, 4:00 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
No.


All you can do is ask 'em, see what they say.



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19 Aug 2018, 4:13 pm

That happens to me only when my ex-wife gets my number; although it hasn't happened in over 25 years.



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19 Aug 2018, 4:14 pm

I can't imagine you struggling for female company, Fnord.



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19 Aug 2018, 4:28 pm

Tequila wrote:
I can't imagine you struggling for female company, Fnord.
Try "with', not "for"... ;)



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19 Aug 2018, 4:30 pm

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I can't imagine you struggling for female company, Fnord.
Try "with', not "for"... ;)[/quote]

That depends - if you're nuts you might like them struggling (consensually, of course).



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19 Aug 2018, 8:20 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This happened like a dozen of times in my lifetime [with different persons]: Woman who never or barely showed any interest in me, never initiated any contact with me... suddenly calls me only when she's heavily drunk just to talk silly stuff with me.
So there was this young woman today who's just acquaintance (a very good looking one, i asked her out like ages ago but declined claiming she doesn't want any relation, and never again) who video called me out of the blue, and she sounded in a very bad shape, and kept talking me mundane stuff for more than an hour about what she did this evening in the disco and how much she drank with friends (4 bottles, she claims); and she was like 'sooo still seeing this girlfriend of yours?' and laughing silly. She was wearing very skimpy and her cleavage was almost rubbing the camera.

Sounds like trouble eh? So I withdrew and didn't even attempt to flirt her or anything.

Is that a 'thing' that happens often, any similar experiences?




I get drunk dialed at least once a month. :P Those women are usually too shy to talk to you sober, but they will after they drink a little social lubricant. :P



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20 Aug 2018, 12:44 am

SilverStar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This happened like a dozen of times in my lifetime [with different persons]: Woman who never or barely showed any interest in me, never initiated any contact with me... suddenly calls me only when she's heavily drunk just to talk silly stuff with me.
So there was this young woman today who's just acquaintance (a very good looking one, i asked her out like ages ago but declined claiming she doesn't want any relation, and never again) who video called me out of the blue, and she sounded in a very bad shape, and kept talking me mundane stuff for more than an hour about what she did this evening in the disco and how much she drank with friends (4 bottles, she claims); and she was like 'sooo still seeing this girlfriend of yours?' and laughing silly. She was wearing very skimpy and her cleavage was almost rubbing the camera.

Sounds like trouble eh? So I withdrew and didn't even attempt to flirt her or anything.

Is that a 'thing' that happens often, any similar experiences?




I get drunk dialed at least once a month. :P Those women are usually too shy to talk to you sober, but they will after they drink a little social lubricant. :P


Ha! So I am not alone. So drunk dialing is really a thing then.


And now she ghosted me, probably she regrets the call.

Crazy creatures....



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20 Aug 2018, 1:47 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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*stares back*


Also, my guess is boredom and drunkeness leads them to do this. Might be Worth it to say some outrageous s**t and se how they react.


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20 Aug 2018, 5:53 am

Drunk women have other guys they'd rather call than me.

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
SilverStar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This happened like a dozen of times in my lifetime [with different persons]: Woman who never or barely showed any interest in me, never initiated any contact with me... suddenly calls me only when she's heavily drunk just to talk silly stuff with me.
So there was this young woman today who's just acquaintance (a very good looking one, i asked her out like ages ago but declined claiming she doesn't want any relation, and never again) who video called me out of the blue, and she sounded in a very bad shape, and kept talking me mundane stuff for more than an hour about what she did this evening in the disco and how much she drank with friends (4 bottles, she claims); and she was like 'sooo still seeing this girlfriend of yours?' and laughing silly. She was wearing very skimpy and her cleavage was almost rubbing the camera.

Sounds like trouble eh? So I withdrew and didn't even attempt to flirt her or anything.

Is that a 'thing' that happens often, any similar experiences?




I get drunk dialed at least once a month. :P Those women are usually too shy to talk to you sober, but they will after they drink a little social lubricant. :P


Ha! So I am not alone. So drunk dialing is really a thing then.


And now she ghosted me, probably she regrets the call.

Crazy creatures....


The polite thing to do would have been to apologize to you for the drunk messaging, but I suppose pretending you don't exist is easier.



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25 Aug 2018, 6:18 pm

Last time i recall something like that happened to me was the night after my first date with my wife. I suspect this was more to dangle the carrot rather than drinking.

The girl messaged me through FB at 330 am. I read at 645 am when I got up to get ready for work, responded at 430 pm when I got home and asked what was up. Apparently she was sad because it was the ex's birthday. I don't remember saying anyhting after and leaving the conversation. This person also had a history of coming to me when upset over her ex or any bf she had and usually after going silent for a few weeks.


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25 Aug 2018, 6:32 pm

One of my friends used to call me drunk at 2am and talk about marrying me. He stopped when I expressed that I was open to seriously talking about it. He is now marrying someone else.