Meeting a girl in real worl when you have zero social skills

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Learn to dance. Find a good place to take lessons, and just have fun. You'll be able to interact with the opposite sex in a more structured environment, and get used to it, as well as have an obvious common topic for conversation.

Plus, once you've learned enough to go out and dance socially, your first interaction need only be asking for the dance, which is pretty hard to get wrong if you just go and do it. (This is actually easier for the men, since it's generally expected that the men do the asking, and the women do the waiting around until they're asked) Once you've danced (and hopefully had fun), it makes subsequent interactions easier, and less awkward.

If you get REALLY good, you might end up with women gravitating towards you on their own, just because they want to dance with someone that actually knows what they're doing and how to lead.