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13 Sep 2021, 11:11 pm

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"Oh my god! Look at his eyes! [gesturing toward me] Ew! He's so gross!" She also rolled her eyes when I asked her to leave out the caramelized onions. Then, when my burger came, it looked tampered with. I was afraid to eat it, since I feared the waitress put a laxative in it or rubbed it between her butt cheeks, out of her disgust with my face. I just ate my fries, and my friend was nice enough to let me eat some of his too. I wrapped my "poisoned" burger in a napkin, and tossed it under my chair. I was afraid to complain to the manager too, since I knew she had him wrapped around her finger, and he'd just accuse me of lying. The only satisfying part was leaving her a 10-cent tip..


This is absolutely horrible,



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13 Sep 2021, 11:13 pm

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But it must be the personal preference of almost all women though, if incel men are rejected because of their looks over potential bedroom skill though.


I think its mentioned in plenty of places that looks is a primary filtration point for 99.9% of women. But unlike men looks is not the most important criteria for a potential partner.



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13 Sep 2021, 11:29 pm

I doubt it’s 99.9%—especially after high school.



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13 Sep 2021, 11:34 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I doubt it’s 99.9%—especially after high school.


Primary filter....you know and I know...



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13 Sep 2021, 11:36 pm

You don’t have to be a “10,” or even an “8” to interest a women.

There are women who are into odd-looking men.

I think what women are most attracted to is a person’s scent…..more than the face. Or a facial expression that’s pleasing.



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13 Sep 2021, 11:38 pm

cyberdad wrote:
ironpony wrote:
But it must be the personal preference of almost all women though, if incel men are rejected because of their looks over potential bedroom skill though.


I think its mentioned in plenty of places that looks is a primary filtration point for 99.9% of women. But unlike men looks is not the most important criteria for a potential partner.


Do men really think this over personality though?



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13 Sep 2021, 11:40 pm

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There are women who are into odd-looking men.
I think what women are most attracted to is a person’s scent…..more than the face. Or a facial expression that’s pleasing.


Possible but i) not all of them would turn down Brad Pitt in favour of the elephant man because they "like" odd men and ii) those who actively seek odd looking men are into fetishes so do account for 0,1% of the female population



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13 Sep 2021, 11:41 pm

I do. I once very smitten with an “ugly fat” woman. She just had a way of walking which made me want her. Reflective of her personality. And she smelled good, too.



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13 Sep 2021, 11:42 pm

ironpony wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
ironpony wrote:
But it must be the personal preference of almost all women though, if incel men are rejected because of their looks over potential bedroom skill though.


I think its mentioned in plenty of places that looks is a primary filtration point for 99.9% of women. But unlike men looks is not the most important criteria for a potential partner.


Do men really think this over personality though?


Seriously Ironpony - do you think an average - above average looking woman is going to talk to every men on the street till they find one with a good personality?



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13 Sep 2021, 11:43 pm

How many men look like the Elephant Man?

Most men and women are average to decent-looking.

I’m a little too “conventional” looking…..that didn’t stop women from desiring me.



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13 Sep 2021, 11:44 pm

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I do. I once very smitten with an “ugly fat” woman. She just had a way of walking which made me want her. Reflective of her personality. And she smelled good, too.


Yeah but I'm talking about women

here's one possible filter process

1. looks (tick)
2. clothes (tick)
3. Smell (tick)

Ok I'll respond if he talks to me....



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13 Sep 2021, 11:45 pm

I feel most women would prefer an average-looking man who smells good over a good-looking man who doesn’t smell good.



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13 Sep 2021, 11:46 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
How many men look like the Elephant Man?

Most men and women are average to decent-looking.

I’m a little too “conventional” looking…..that didn’t stop women from desiring me.


Apologies to elephant man...it was just for illustration purposes only



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13 Sep 2021, 11:47 pm

All that helps….but not always.

And it doesn’t preclude supposedly “ugly” men from finding love.

Threads like these sometimes make men lose hope.



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13 Sep 2021, 11:47 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I feel most women would prefer an average-looking man who smells good over a good-looking man who doesn’t smell good.


In my checklist if they reach 3 and it's not a good smell then return back to scanning for another man



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13 Sep 2021, 11:48 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
All that helps….but not always.

And it doesn’t preclude supposedly “ugly” men from finding love.

Threads like these sometimes make men lose hope.


its about understanding human nature. Incels are a really really small cohort,