I can't stand wearing "girly" clothes - they're very uncomfortable for me, and skirts and dresses make me feel like I'm walking around in my underwear. But I wouldn't want to date any guy who would be superficial enough to not date me just because I only ever wear jeans and T-shirts anyway, and if he has a problem with me liking Tool, well, he's not going to be any happier when he finds out my other interests, most likely So maybe going around wearing jeans and a Tool T-shirt would help weed people out for me.
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Yet in my new wildness and freedom I almost welcome the bitterness of alienage. For although nepenthe has calmed me, I know always that I am an outsider; a stranger in this century and among those who are still men.
-H. P. Lovecraft, "The Outsider"