Men Are Confusing

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Most guys I didn’t tell them about my Cerebral Pasly, I told two guys, they were ok with it. Nick once said some NT would be accepting.

I don't even try to understand them. Life's much better for me that way.

Alright but...



... that too reveals that you have or might have a disability (depending on if the wheelchair is a temporal thing to heal from an injury or permanent but unless implied otherwise most will assume permanent) and a lot of people will not be willing to date someone wheelchair bound.

Did this guy stop talking to you shortly after you revealed you needed a wheelchair? Did any of the others change their behavior towards you shortly after you revealed your cerebral palsy?
A lot of people won't be honest about how they feel about these things. Telling you they won't date you due to your disability is considered rude and they are probably uncomfortable with doing so. They may choose the easy way (easy for them) and act supportive only to stop talking to you soon after. (I'm not saying that this has to be the case for ever guy you revealed your disability to but some would react like that.)

There's no way around revealing your disability eventually though.

Yes, non-disabled people who are willing to date someone disabled do exist. But non-disabled people who are not also exist. A disability does put you at a disadvantage. It is your choice to try to date non-disabled people or those in similar situations to your own.

I don’t tell men about my Cerebral Pasly until later, I only told two men so far. I’m NOT badly handicapped with Cerebral Pasly, I’m one of the lucky ones, I look normal on the outside.

What I meant was that, according to what you wrote earlier, you seem to have mentioned you're in a wheelchair shortly before this man stopped talking to you. Whether or not you are badly handicapped 'wheelchair' sounds like you may be and it might have made him think that you are.
(That is, unless you actually mentioned and explained the wheelchair earlier and only mentioned that you fell out of it there or maybe it wasn't actually shortly before?)

Matt, the guy I was talking to, he messaged me, he even asked about my ankle. He stopped talking to me,cuz he is seeing his ex again.

How do you feel about that, Kitty?

Haha. You know, thousands of books have been written about "how to understand women". Never seen anything vice versa. Men are not complicated. If they have sex and food on the table, they are good okay, obviously joking, but it kinda is a half truth. Women are way more complicated, because they choose their partner based on the mood. Whenever a single woman just wants sex she would prefer a sex object type of man, whether he has brain cells or not. However at other times a woman would look for "the provider", a confident man that would be able to support her and her (potential) offsprings

Men are easy. I'm telling you that as man (absolutely not biased )

There's a famous case of a man who stuck with a woman who was well known to be violent and insane because she apparently provided "amazing sex". She ended up brutally murdering him and attempted to feed him to his own children.

Men really are that easy to please. We'll put up with incredible amounts of nonsense if you give us what we want.

Lol that might sound mean, but he had it coming. Just a case of a rat getting too close to a booby trapped cheese.

It doesn’t matter now, he unmatched me, I don’t know why, he like talking to me, he talked to me Sunday, we known each other for almost 3 weeks, why unmatched me now?

The night she killed him was after he had warned his coworkers that if he didn't show up the next day it means he's been killed. He ended up being seduced by her before his murder.

If you're interested, Katherine Knight is her name.

^^

What a charming lady, turning her lover into a lunch.

Men are confusing for me. Why they can like me,but don’t want to talk to me? Anyway I’m thinking deleting my account.