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06 Jun 2019, 2:26 pm

Ok, we have had a thread on deal breakers. How about a thread on deal makers?


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06 Jun 2019, 4:27 pm

Ok. I will start. A lady who will hold my hand and not let me go. :)


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06 Jun 2019, 4:30 pm

No tattoos, doesn't swear, doesn't do sex talk, doesn't wear trousers, religiously/politically compatible, well brought up, good taste, competent, intelligent, feminine........



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06 Jun 2019, 4:39 pm

A lady who is willing to risk loving me. :)


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06 Jun 2019, 4:53 pm

A guy who tells me not to worry when I feel embarrassed


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06 Jun 2019, 4:59 pm

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
A guy who tells me not to worry when I feel embarrassed

I'm sure you don't do things like I've done... Like when I went to use a fax machine. :) Don't worry. We all get embarissed at times. :)


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06 Jun 2019, 5:06 pm

A guy who says I'm pretty when I'm not wearing make up


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06 Jun 2019, 5:24 pm

I think most men see a lady as being pretty regardless of make up or not. You may find it is the women who think that men only like them to wear makeup. When I was younger I would avoid ladies with make up, but these days I am mature enough not to mind either way.
Is rather the same as some men who dress up smart and fasionable in the hope to attract a lady. I don't do this myself. I mean... Well. If a lady does not like me as I am, then she is not really going to like me. I dress for comfort. It does not mean I can't dress smart, but it is not really me. And I personally believe that if I did dress smart and attracted a lady, would she only be after me because I looked smart? What would happen if I was scruffy after working on a bicycle, the car or in the garden etc?
I have never been fasionable. I let fasion copy me instead! :lol:


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06 Jun 2019, 6:13 pm

Kind

Loving

Someone I can have philosophical discussions with

Has interests that we can both connect over

Easy to talk to/good listener

Laidback

Likes for us to both have time to ourselves here and there

Respectful

(I’m sure there’s more but that’s all for now)


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06 Jun 2019, 6:36 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:
Kind

Loving

Someone I can have philosophical discussions with

Has interests that we can both connect over

Easy to talk to/good listener

Laidback

Likes for us to both have time to ourselves here and there

Respectful

(I’m sure there’s more but that’s all for now)


When you come accross a nice man in your area who matches your description grab him quick! :lol:


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06 Jun 2019, 6:44 pm

Mountain Goat wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
Kind

Loving

Someone I can have philosophical discussions with

Has interests that we can both connect over

Easy to talk to/good listener

Laidback

Likes for us to both have time to ourselves here and there

Respectful

(I’m sure there’s more but that’s all for now)


When you come accross a nice man in your area who matches your description grab him quick! :lol:


I don’t think my list is in any way unreasonable.


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06 Jun 2019, 6:54 pm

I didn't think it was.


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06 Jun 2019, 10:48 pm

A guy who plays along with my silliness


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07 Jun 2019, 1:10 am

Someone I can talk to endlessly.


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07 Jun 2019, 5:58 am

~Vary clingy & needy & affectionate with romantic partners.
~Does & says things others consider dumb. What I mean by this is that I'm ret*d compared to my peers & even most other Aspies. Smart people tend to treat me like they know they are smarter than me. Plus I find things others consider dumb funny & cute. I would NOT think of her as dumb or anything but lots of others probably would just like how lots of people think of me as dumb.
~Straight edge or at least only drinks occasionally & in moderation & no drug abuse. I don't consider taking prescriptions for medical reasons & occasionally smoking weed abuse.
~Doesn't have kids & is OK with not having any.


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07 Jun 2019, 7:27 am

Antrax wrote:
Someone I can talk to endlessly.


This is amazing ^^^

A guy who wants to hold my hand


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