Never date or show interest in Autistic women!

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22 Oct 2019, 7:48 pm

I will never date or show interest in Autistic women. I had them smile and stare even sit next to me. Then ignore me. I don't trust them and never never :twisted: will approach them again. I'm autistic too and the women were in their thirties. One woman stared at me when I looked at another woman. But she stared and talked to another guy. Autistic women plays head games with men. I advise all Autistic men to avoid them at all cost. Go date women without Autism like I'm going to.



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22 Oct 2019, 7:57 pm

Autistic women are awesome.

I'm inclined to believe autistic women are probably LESS likely to play head games; if you think Neurotypical women aren't capable of playing head games then I'm ROFL.

Black and white thinking can be an asset, but in this case, for you, OP, it's definitely a detriment.

Also, since this is your first post, as a rule we're very supportive of the autistic women who are members here and I'll proudly say even protective. Hopefully you can be friendly here as well.



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22 Oct 2019, 7:59 pm

windmaker wrote:
I will never date or show interest in Autistic women. I had them smile and stare even sit next to me. Then ignore me. I don't trust them and never never :twisted: will approach them again. I'm autistic too and the women were in their thirties. One woman stared at me when I looked at another woman. But she stared and talked to another guy. Autistic women plays head games with men. I advise all Autistic men to avoid them at all cost. Go date women without Autism like I'm going to.
Are you serious? If so, then go check out “heartlessaspergers.com”, and then reconsider your opinions.


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22 Oct 2019, 7:59 pm

Well I'm coming out from a heartbreak. Maybe I'm coming on too strong. But I was hurt by them. :(



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22 Oct 2019, 8:01 pm

What them?

You were hurt by a person, an individual.

It's on them, not all autistic women.



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22 Oct 2019, 8:02 pm

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Well I'm coming out from a heartbreak. Maybe I'm coming on too strong. But I was hurt by them.
How many? One? Two? A half-dozen?

Certainly, you were not hurt by all of them.


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22 Oct 2019, 8:14 pm

No. They were 4 women. I don't understand why they show you the right signs then push you away. I didn't know they lack empathy. I never dated I will not post my age. But I'm very hurt and don't understand when I'm getting clear message of interest then I'm getting them back peddling.



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22 Oct 2019, 8:15 pm

windmaker wrote:
No. They were 4 women. I don't understand why they show you the right signs then push you away. I didn't know they lack empathy. I never dated I will not post my age. But I'm very hurt and don't understand when I'm getting clear message of interest then I'm getting them back peddling.


I find one woman is more than enough, if you get involved with four then good luck to you.



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22 Oct 2019, 8:20 pm

Not 4 at once. I was not involved with them. The last one use to sit next to me when I was sitting alone. She would smile and state at me. I tried to talk to her and she ignore me. So now when I see her I won't look her way.



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22 Oct 2019, 8:52 pm

I’ve found aspie women aren’t any different in reality then nt women. Which is to say some nt woman could be the same as aspie women and they could be different. Most women aspie or not abide by what society says to though. Aspies ARENT w different species.


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22 Oct 2019, 8:55 pm

windmaker wrote:
No. They were 4 women. I don't understand why they show you the right signs then push you away. I didn't know they lack empathy. I never dated I will not post my age. But I'm very hurt and don't understand when I'm getting clear message of interest then I'm getting them back peddling.

So they sat near you, looked at you and the lot of them broke your heart? How do you know they are autistic?



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22 Oct 2019, 8:57 pm

All those women said they had ASD.



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22 Oct 2019, 8:59 pm

The shop I buy my beer in has a lovely girl working there, she was born in England and her mother's family are egyptian, I branched out into wine, red wine, knowing nothing about it and she gives me all my wine buying advice.
She is very pretty and we always have a nice chat and a giggle, I've never thought it was anything more and I suspect half your 'aspie girls' have interacted less with you.

Just saying.



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22 Oct 2019, 9:02 pm

windmaker wrote:
All those women said they had ASD.

So they talked to you too and not just staring? How many times did you encounter these four women?



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22 Oct 2019, 9:05 pm

Anne, if you question anyone here you get reported, it's not worth it my friend.



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22 Oct 2019, 9:07 pm

Well of course I don't read faces well. I just know because the looks in their eyes. Last year I went to an ASPIE event. She stared at me and we talked for a time. I shook her hand then looked her up on Facebook and sent her a friend request. She never answered me back to this very day.