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03 Nov 2019, 3:07 am

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Sorry you're having no success with suitable women, Sly. You need someone with the personality and outlook of SharonB - someone really caring who has er priorities right - but such women are unfortunately few and far between and she's already taken! Ideally you need someone who's on the spectrum as they are more interested in their special interests than how much they, or a potential partner, have in the bank.

Perhaps your search will be rewarded when you're least expecting it.

Such women are always taken, lots of poor loser men like me not enough women who’d date such men. Worse here do to there being 2,000 more men then women, it inflates women’s egos even more. Most women won’t date long distance either so I’m limited to half my city.

Half or more of the women in wp have expressed thwt they won’t date a guy unless he makes as much or more then they do. I don’t think aspies are special we are more alike nts then we’d admit. But we aren’t different species so makes sense.



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03 Nov 2019, 3:12 am

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This is because it’s an online dating site. People tend to have superficial standards on them—because you only see people’s pictures.

There are people who are superficial—yes there are—but there are other people who have depth.

This shows that’s not true. Most Women read the profiles and it’s the income that matters.
That’s all that changed and they have to go to my profile to see it.

Do you think the people on dating sites don’t exist in person? Their your friends, their your neighbors, they’re your coworkers.


Just like if you pretended to be a female, and posted a pic of a hawt supermodel in your profile. You would get zillions of hits by shallow men slobbering over "your" good looks. :lol:



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03 Nov 2019, 3:57 am

I'm looking for a rich lady, preferably an aristocrat who enjoys slumming it and likes trailers. I can fix most things with a ball of string and a hammer but don't worry, I'm not house-proud or anything!I also wear odd socks, which I'm told is a sign of latent creativity (as yet untapped). :-D I don't go out much, I prefer to stay at home, not cuddling up, not on a sofa, maybe watching something trashy. :heart:



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03 Nov 2019, 4:32 am

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envirozentinel wrote:
Sorry you're having no success with suitable women, Sly. You need someone with the personality and outlook of SharonB - someone really caring who has er priorities right - but such women are unfortunately few and far between and she's already taken! Ideally you need someone who's on the spectrum as they are more interested in their special interests than how much they, or a potential partner, have in the bank.

Perhaps your search will be rewarded when you're least expecting it.

Such women are always taken, lots of poor loser men like me not enough women who’d date such men. Worse here do to there being 2,000 more men then women, it inflates women’s egos even more. Most women won’t date long distance either so I’m limited to half my city.

Half or more of the women in wp have expressed thwt they won’t date a guy unless he makes as much or more then they do. I don’t think aspies are special we are more alike nts then we’d admit. But we aren’t different species so makes sense.


Most people are probably looking for a partner, not someone they have to support. It's not necessarily about wanting money, just equality.

There are probably many people out there who would date you, but they can tell you consider yourself a loser, so they look elsewhere. I think your profile experiment was more about confirming your view of yourself as a loser than learning anything about people. You enjoy self-loathing and want to be single. I went through a period of this, but it's gross. You'll be much happier--and find someone--once you move on.

Also, why do so many here try to systematize men and women and then wonder why they're single? People are not systems.


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03 Nov 2019, 4:54 am

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envirozentinel wrote:
Sorry you're having no success with suitable women, Sly. You need someone with the personality and outlook of SharonB - someone really caring who has er priorities right - but such women are unfortunately few and far between and she's already taken! Ideally you need someone who's on the spectrum as they are more interested in their special interests than how much they, or a potential partner, have in the bank.

Perhaps your search will be rewarded when you're least expecting it.

Such women are always taken, lots of poor loser men like me not enough women who’d date such men. Worse here do to there being 2,000 more men then women, it inflates women’s egos even more. Most women won’t date long distance either so I’m limited to half my city.

Half or more of the women in wp have expressed thwt they won’t date a guy unless he makes as much or more then they do. I don’t think aspies are special we are more alike nts then we’d admit. But we aren’t different species so makes sense.


Most people are probably looking for a partner, not someone they have to support. It's not necessarily about wanting money, just equality.

There are probably many people out there who would date you, but they can tell you consider yourself a loser, so they look elsewhere. I think your profile experiment was more about confirming your view of yourself as a loser than learning anything about people. You enjoy self-loathing and want to be single. I went through a period of this, but it's gross. You'll be much happier--and find someone--once you move on.

Also, why do so many here try to systematize men and women and then wonder why they're single? People are not systems.

Regardless of his self image, he gets an immediate response by lying about his salary, otherwise no response.

Being fatalistic is gloomy and off-putting for many people, one gets the impression that communication would revolve around stereotypes.

I want to ask, just exactly how rich did you say you were Sly?



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03 Nov 2019, 4:57 am

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kraftiekortie wrote:
This is because it’s an online dating site. People tend to have superficial standards on them—because you only see people’s pictures.

There are people who are superficial—yes there are—but there are other people who have depth.

This shows that’s not true. Most Women read the profiles and it’s the income that matters.
That’s all that changed and they have to go to my profile to see it.

Do you think the people on dating sites don’t exist in person? Their your friends, their your neighbors, they’re your coworkers.


Just like if you pretended to be a female, and posted a pic of a hawt supermodel in your profile. You would get zillions of hits by shallow men slobbering over "your" good looks. :lol:

You nailed it.



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03 Nov 2019, 5:39 am

The difference with lower income women is that they usually assume the role of a mom and housekeeper. A valuable contribution to a partnership even though it doesn't bring in any money.



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03 Nov 2019, 6:10 am

HighLlama wrote:
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envirozentinel wrote:
Sorry you're having no success with suitable women, Sly. You need someone with the personality and outlook of SharonB - someone really caring who has er priorities right - but such women are unfortunately few and far between and she's already taken! Ideally you need someone who's on the spectrum as they are more interested in their special interests than how much they, or a potential partner, have in the bank.

Perhaps your search will be rewarded when you're least expecting it.

Such women are always taken, lots of poor loser men like me not enough women who’d date such men. Worse here do to there being 2,000 more men then women, it inflates women’s egos even more. Most women won’t date long distance either so I’m limited to half my city.

Half or more of the women in wp have expressed thwt they won’t date a guy unless he makes as much or more then they do. I don’t think aspies are special we are more alike nts then we’d admit. But we aren’t different species so makes sense.


Most people are probably looking for a partner, not someone they have to support. It's not necessarily about wanting money, just equality.

There are probably many people out there who would date you, but they can tell you consider yourself a loser, so they look elsewhere. I think your profile experiment was more about confirming your view of yourself as a loser than learning anything about people. You enjoy self-loathing and want to be single. I went through a period of this, but it's gross. You'll be much happier--and find someone--once you move on.

Also, why do so many here try to systematize men and women and then wonder why they're single? People are not systems.

Yeah those unemployed women living at thst parents demanding a guy who makes 20,000 or more are looking for their equals :roll:
Most women date up.
I’ve been rejected by a lot of women who are my equal or lessor.

I don’t want to be single. That’s why I’m trying to date. I’d love to go on dates. But I don’t get matches and with today’s dating apps if you don’t match you can’t message. So I can’t message women anymore and maybe get a date by my messages. Its dropped my dating changes from slim to zero

You don’t know me.

The women shouldn’t act like they do or post their profiles of they don’t want guys talking about it.
Similar guys who say they only date thin fit young women are opening themselves up to being called superficial.
If you open yourself to public you opening your to be talked about.
Superficial men on dating sites are common subject on feminist sites and blogs. Don’t see why superficial women shouldn’t be too.

Also it wasn’t an experiment. I did it out of desperation one night while yet again crying to sleep. Thought maybe it’s time to be bad guy and lie.

I don’t need to be supported but I can’t provide and that seems they be the issue.

Would you defend men who refuse to date chubby women or women with Job?

But I don’t why I expect people on this site to think mIn wage men are worthy of love.
Mean not like most aspies are on welfare or anything :roll:



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03 Nov 2019, 6:12 am

domineekee wrote:
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sly279 wrote:
envirozentinel wrote:
Sorry you're having no success with suitable women, Sly. You need someone with the personality and outlook of SharonB - someone really caring who has er priorities right - but such women are unfortunately few and far between and she's already taken! Ideally you need someone who's on the spectrum as they are more interested in their special interests than how much they, or a potential partner, have in the bank.

Perhaps your search will be rewarded when you're least expecting it.

Such women are always taken, lots of poor loser men like me not enough women who’d date such men. Worse here do to there being 2,000 more men then women, it inflates women’s egos even more. Most women won’t date long distance either so I’m limited to half my city.

Half or more of the women in wp have expressed thwt they won’t date a guy unless he makes as much or more then they do. I don’t think aspies are special we are more alike nts then we’d admit. But we aren’t different species so makes sense.


Most people are probably looking for a partner, not someone they have to support. It's not necessarily about wanting money, just equality.

There are probably many people out there who would date you, but they can tell you consider yourself a loser, so they look elsewhere. I think your profile experiment was more about confirming your view of yourself as a loser than learning anything about people. You enjoy self-loathing and want to be single. I went through a period of this, but it's gross. You'll be much happier--and find someone--once you move on.

Also, why do so many here try to systematize men and women and then wonder why they're single? People are not systems.

Regardless of his self image, he gets an immediate response by lying about his salary, otherwise no response.

Being fatalistic is gloomy and off-putting for many people, one gets the impression that communication would revolve around stereotypes.

I want to ask, just exactly how rich did you say you were Sly?


50,000 so an average good salary. Mean police make that much, I said I work IT.
but I can’t afford to live that lie.



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03 Nov 2019, 6:14 am

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The difference with lower income women is that they usually assume the role of a mom and housekeeper. A valuable contribution to a partnership even though it doesn't bring in any money.

Unless they don’t want kids and this seems to say Lower income men are worthless and don’t bring Andy value.

Companionship should be the only value anyone seeks for a relationship.



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03 Nov 2019, 7:06 am

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So I changed my job and income and over night I’m getting matches like crazy.

Niiice! 8) Welcome to the world of dating. I knew you'd make it.

Now the question is how to keep them from finding out you're not rich. My advice is to just not mention your salary at all.


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03 Nov 2019, 7:27 am

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So I changed my job and income and over night I’m getting matches like crazy.

Niiice! 8) Welcome to the world of dating. I knew you'd make it.

Now the question is how to keep them from finding out you're not rich. My advice is to just not mention your salary at all.

When I show up by bus they figure it out. Or rather when I suggest a walk in the park for a date.



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03 Nov 2019, 7:32 am

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So I changed my job and income and over night I’m getting matches like crazy.

Niiice! 8) Welcome to the world of dating. I knew you'd make it.

Now the question is how to keep them from finding out you're not rich. My advice is to just not mention your salary at all.

When I show up by bus they figure it out. Or rather when I suggest a walk in the park for a date.


I get what you're saying about catching the bus but consider, I didn't own a car when I met my current girlfriend and I used public transport to get to our first date. Our second date was in her car.

You do not need to own a car to get a girlfriend.


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03 Nov 2019, 7:39 am

Tell them you don't drive a car because you are doing your bit to help Greta save the environment and don't want to add to fossil fuel use! It might not be true but would be a reason some girls might fall for.

Then say "I don't go to expensive restaurants because the extra money spent could rather go to the less priviliged in society..."


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03 Nov 2019, 9:15 am

All in all, it’s better to be honest.

You do have a driver’s license...that’s an advantage others don’t have.