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13 Nov 2019, 6:06 pm

Made a Facebook dating profile but only one picture and bio blank i dont know what to put.
No matches so far either.

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13 Nov 2019, 6:13 pm

You have to put some kind of bio.....

Talk about how you love history.

I wish you still worked in the bookstore; working in a bookstore and being into reading can be segued.

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14 Nov 2019, 1:53 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

You have to put some kind of bio.....

Talk about how you love history.

I wish you still worked in the bookstore; working in a bookstore and being into reading can be segued.

I don’t read books though. Haven’t read a book in 10 years.

I dont know how to phrase bio in a positive attractive way

Probably won’t help since I’m ugly

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14 Nov 2019, 2:22 pm

^^

Here's a thought. If I am writing something for a job: It feels like mostly I get frustrated easily, misunderstand things, am pedantic, too detailed, don't chit chat... etc. ad naseum... and that sometimes I am have amazing insight, am fun, can run circles around folks with requirements, etc." ---- delete Part 1 (mostly negative), keep Part 2 (sometimes positive).

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14 Nov 2019, 5:00 pm

You could also try asking someone who already likes you to describe you.

Fo example,

Ask your mom/dad/brother how they would describe you, or ask them what they think your best qualities are.

Ask your friends to describe you. It might Be easier with a friend to explain the description is for a dating profile, and they'll probably be happy to help.

Good luck!

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16 Nov 2019, 4:33 am

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:

Family members are biased.

And friends would never be bluntly honest.

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16 Nov 2019, 5:51 am

^ Hopefully they could spot some of Sly's positive characteristics that he has overlooked.

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16 Nov 2019, 6:29 am

Yeah....so family members are biased. Sly has to put a positive aspect for his bio.

And stop saying you’re ugly, Sly. Because you are not ugly. It’s a lie to yourself.

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16 Nov 2019, 6:38 am

It's not about being bluntly honest and unbiased, it's about writing something that sounds nice and is not false.

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16 Nov 2019, 2:30 pm

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:

I don’t have any. No friends.

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16 Nov 2019, 2:32 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

Yeah....so family members are biased. Sly has to put a positive aspect for his bio.

And stop saying you’re ugly, Sly. Because you are not ugly. It’s a lie to yourself.

Women say I’m ugly, never had one legitimate say I’m cute, handsome or good looking who isn’t family lying. I know this lie, I tell ugly family members they aren’t ugly.

Was really hoping people here could help me word it properly I’m not good with words, but , it probably wouldn’t help. Just last night I got rejected by woman very much like me, but fatter. Said she’s laid back and isn’t judgmental but clearly found me ugly so no go

that or and my job

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16 Nov 2019, 2:39 pm

Can you ask her why she rejected you?

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17 Nov 2019, 12:22 am

AnneOleson wrote:

Can you ask her why she rejected you?

She likely wouldn’t reply , as women in wp say they don’t owe us a explaintion.
Probably cause I’m poor and ugly and she wanna a handsome well off guy

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