ProfessorJohn wrote:
So are most Aspies unable to form emotional connections? Or we just have more difficulty with it? I am able to form emotional connections with others, and become sexually attracted to others, but then I am not at a real high level of Aspergers.
People with Asperger's may feel sexual attraction but are unaware of the feelings of others and may be unable to recognize the feelings of other people except they are guessing them. Once you are able to form emotional connections then you may be autistic but you don't have Asperger's. People who have Asperger's don't even develop as many emotions and feelings beside of the sensorical ones as NTs do. NTs are very emotional driven and also get the emotions of others by developing the same emotions as well. They call it 'mirror neurons' and it's beside of the feeling of emotions at all a requirement to form emotional connections. NTs are just aliens to me how they get each others emotions and especially if they form emotional connections.
That people may be turned of by you as well is that also very empathical people can be unaware of the empathy of others towards themself and the very high empathy of women. Once you feel unsure towards others or feel like a looser or once you have a lot of negative expectations then they'll get your negativity and may dislike you just because it causes them to feel the same negative way.
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