TB_TB_TB_TB_TB_TB wrote:
How do you know if you can find someone better or that it's just low self-confidence stopping you from thinking you can find someone better?
Can you find someone better? Well it depends on what qualities you want in a partner relative to the qualities you bring to the table in a potential relationship.
For instance, say you're an unemployed overweight neckbeard. You're probably not going to attract the 10/10 sorority girl with a bangin body making 100k a year. Is it possible? Yes. Is it probable? No
In the dating market, you have three choices. You can either date "within your league" and find someone quicker, try to date someone "out of your league" but probably wait longer and possibly not find anybody, OR you can try and improve your dating market value to attract a higher quality mate. The choice is yours.